Why does a girl who has bad looks, father has no money, is a bad student herself, has somehow passed honors-masters, why does she want to get a son of a high-class, talented, well-established, polite, well-educated family as a husband?
What is the reason for girls to be so surprised? The reason for this is that the parents did not feed the child with ghee and rice when she was a child, because of this the girl's intelligence is short, she understands less.
If you want to marry an educated, talented and established boy from a polite-elegant-educated family, you have to maintain that level in your family, you have to practice courtesy and mannerism from a young age, you have to make your family members educated, polite and elegant, you have to change the environment of the house, One has to have a reputation as a gentleman in the area, then these things can be expected.
Uneducated himself, other members of the family are also in the same situation, in such a situation, these are nothing but illusions. Yes, that's what reality says.