The word 'marriage' is a very important and important subject in the family, social and religious perspectives of all adult males. Everyone's life comes in the Mahindra, when he gets along with a life-partner in the way of new life.

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there is one more important thing before marriage. And this is the wedding proposal and the bride watching episode. Islam is a complete biography, so there is also the specific guidance of Islam about the marriage proposal and bride before marriage. Therefore, in accordance with the laws of the Shari'ah and worship of other matters of life, including the practice of marriage and prayer, follow the instructions of the Shari'ah and follow one kind of practice and worship. But because of the correct direction of Islam, we often work against Islam in the context of marriage proposal and bride.

Since marriage comes as a marriage proposal and a bride, so before marriage it is necessary to know what Islam has given us to suggest marriage and to see the bride.
What is the meaning of marriage in Islam's view? Marriage is a social bond or legal agreement through which marital relations between two people is established and the ideal family and safe society develops. Marriage is not only a close relationship between men and women, but the main tool for forming a healthy and natural society is marriage.

The Prophet (s) said, "O young people, those among you who can afford marriage should marry. Because it lowers the eye and protects the shame. And whoever can not afford it, fasting his duty. Because it mitens sexual tension. "(Bukhari: 5066; Muslim: 3464)

That is why the scholars say that marriage is better than nafl. There is some obligatory work in connection with the proposal of marriage and contact between the groom and the groom, which both parties have to take into consideration. When someone is interested in marrying a woman, she should try to get her through the guardian of that girl.

1. What is the proposal of marriage in Shari'ah? In the case of marriage proposal, the direction is to suggest marriage proposal on behalf of a person whose proposal may be accepted. This is the initial agreement for marriage initiators. This is the promise of marriage and the first step of the wedding.
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2. Marriage is an important matter in the lives of all the women in the streets. Therefore, when they decide to get married, they have the duty to seek welfare from Ishtikhara (Allah).:,,,,,",

Narrated by Jabir (R), the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "O Allah, I seek good from you by your knowledge. I wish you with power through your power and wish you great grace. Because you are strong, I am powerless, you are wise, I am ignorant, and you are fully wise about the unseen things. O Allah, this work (mentioning the intended work or matter here), if your knowledge is good in my religion, my livelihood and my consequences, or in the world and in the hereafter, then give me strength in it. Then keep me pleasing in it. "(Bukhari: 1166; Abu Daud: 1540)

1. Before agreeing with the advice of the married couple, you should contact and consult an experienced person in marriage and related matters, who knows best about the family of the pot or the bride.

The Prophet (peace be upon him) used to consult with his companions in more detail. Abu Huraira (ra) narrated, he said, "I am the Messenger did not see anyone else of his companions to consult more with." (Tirmidhi: 1714; Baihaqi: 19280)

Hasan Basri (R) said, "There are three types of people in the person: some people are full personality, some people are half personality and some people are completely personless. The person with full personality is the one who can make a decision and even consult. He is half-human, who can decide but does not consult. He is the personality of the person who can make decisions without consulting others do not. "(Shihabuddin abasihi, al-musatataripha fee kulli musatayaripha: 1166)

But with whom to consult, his duty is to protect faithfulness. He will not hide any wrongdoing as he does, and do not make any such mistake as he does not say. And of course do not tell anyone about this advice.

1. Look at the girl When someone wants to marry a woman, she has permission to meet her. But he also has specific guidelines in Islam. It is clear from the instructions of Muhammad (pbuh).?

Muhammad (pbuh) said, "If any of you proposes to marry a woman, then if she is able to see the beauty of that woman, which fascinates her and encourages her to marry her, let her see it." (Baihaqi, Sunan Kubra: 13869)

In another Hadith it is narrated from Abu Huraira that he said, "I was with the Prophet (pbuh). Meanwhile, a man came to him and said that he married an Ansari girl. Then the Prophet (সা) asked him, 'Have you seen him?' He said, no. He said, go and look at him. Because there is something in the eyes of the Ansari (the problem). "(Muslim: 3550)

1. Permission granted by a woman to marriage It is very important to get the consent of a woman in marriage. It is inappropriate for a woman to take her opinion on the marriage decision and her father or the acquittals to go beyond his will.

Muhammad (pbuh) said, "A woman who had got married before, the right to decide on her marriage is more than her father or guardian and it is necessary to get permission from a virgin girl's marriage, (but she is silent)." (Bukhari and Muslim)

1. Intercourse or outside intercourse Before a marriage, a woman can contact the person offering the marriage proposal through mobile, letter or email, but only to discuss the marriage contract or terms and to communicate it must be in the sense of feeling and emotions . Note that this communication should be done with the consent of both the parent or guardian. Besides, it is totally forbidden to go out with the proposer before going to the wedding, traveling or staying in solitary confinement. Because, until the marriage is over, the man is none of them, until their marriage is complete.

2. When a woman does not offer any other proposal during the wedding, she is forbidden from the Shari'ah to offer a marriage proposal to a woman when she is getting married for some other time or when a woman is married to someone else. But if the first proponent permits or withdraws the marriage proposal, then the second can offer the woman a marriage proposal.

According to Sahih Muslim, Muhammad (pbuh) said, "A believer is the brother of another believer. So when buying a brother, a brother has to pay more than the other brother or a brother proposes a woman (marriage), then the other brother's proposal (marriage) is forbidden, unless he permits him. "

According to Bukhari Sharif, Muhammad (pbuh) said, "Do not offer another marriage proposal to marriage, unless he withdraws the marriage proposal or permits him (to offer marriage)."

1. It should not be rejected if a proposal from a suitable vessel is not rejected by the proposal of a vessel. Muhammad (pbuh) has asked about this.

Narrated by Abu Huraira, he said, the Messenger of Allah said, "If someone proposes marriage to you, whose goodness and character you are content with, you will marry him. If you do not, then there will be anarchy in the world. "(Tirmidhi: 1084)

Muhammad (pbuh) further said, "Three things should not be delayed: praying - when the time of prayer is done, to bury - when the Janazah becomes and marriage of a woman - when a man with equal status offers a marriage." (Al-Tirmidhi)?