@oluwatobiloba I am very conscious about my relationship with people. My last year in University, A particular night, I went to see my ex at the female hostel, I stayed in an obscure shade waiting for her to come out. Few minutes after, a venza parked infront of the shade, I was unnoticed. After 15 minutes, 6 ladies arrived approaching the car, the driver came out. After a short discussion, he told them he had an emergency appointment, that they won't be going out again.

5 of the 6 girls left, I saw the driver shouting at the last girl. It was the most peccancy word I havd ever heard

"what is your problem now, I told you I need a girl to use, all this ones have been used".

After 20 minutes, The Girl (destroyer of lifes), brought out another 5 girl and the guy left with 2 of them.

I was overwhelmed by the scene that I did not notice my ex was calling me. I try to get a grip of the girl face but I couldn't.

That Night I couldn't see my ex and it was the last time I visited her hostel till I graduated. One thing I learnt from all this, it that the victim of this evil deeds are people that lack self control and contentment. We need self control in an out-of-control-world.

Self control is the power to master the expression of our passion and emotion. We need to educate ourselves to self-control, to the habit of holding passion and prejudice and evil tendencies subject to an upright and reasoning will.

Peter 1:13 says therefore, prepare your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.