Yesterday on the radio, I heard an interview program where the host and guests were talking about "impostor syndrome".
What is counterfeit syndrome?
Simply put, it is the self negation of successful individuals.
For example, some people who have achieved great success, although they are talented, firmly believe that they are a rascal.
They believe that their success is purely due to good luck; Others like themselves only because they don't understand themselves enough.
They firmly believe that they are a incompetent impostor, always afraid that one day everyone will find out that they are a dishonest fraudster.
You may even fall into anxiety and fear for this.
Moreover, the more successful people become, the more likely they are to experience this situation, including Nobel laureates, renowned scientists, and billionaires.
I reviewed my growth path and it seems like I have gone through this stage, but it passed quickly.
I still have very little internal friction and self doubt, let alone self denial.
And I have always told everyone that in the internet age, arrogance is much better than humility.
It should be noted that mindset not only affects a person's income, but also their emotional and mental health.
Life is actually quite short, the stage where one can truly perceive life, have the ability to enjoy life, and will enjoy life is only twenty to thirty years. Are you willing to spend these decades in self doubt?
If you are unwilling, the first thing you need to do is to remove the tumor culture from your mind, because that culture has been harmful to people for thousands of years.
In other words, only when you believe in yourself as good can you truly become better.
I have always felt that I am very unique. I can provide high-quality spiritual food for thousands of people online, and I am immeasurable for my achievements.
I deserve to be able to earn money, but I deserve to have no mental exhaustion.
And what about those who doubt me, question me, strike me, and deny me?
I have completely isolated myself, and in real life, I have never seen such people again. I have encountered people like this online and have been blacklisted one by one.
So, how could I possibly have mental internal friction or self doubt?
Most people's life energy has always been suppressed by various "internal and external troubles".
What is internal worry?
Confusion, depression, stress, self-doubt, and being too concerned about interpersonal relationships can all suppress our inner energy.
What is an external disease?
Polluted air, water, food, and poor living space can all deplete our vital energy.
Many people at the bottom are under the dual pressure of internal and external troubles, so stop being a reflection monster and torment yourself mentally all day.
By the way, 'bad interpersonal relationships' are much better than' overly concerned about interpersonal relationships'.
I have always felt that if a person has more and more friends, it indicates that their brain has gone wrong.
Because maintaining interpersonal relationships requires a huge amount of energy, and they can also affect your emotions.
Life is very short, don't torture yourself for those meaningless things.
Family members are also a part of interpersonal relationships, and if they cannot provide you with energy, but instead play the role of 'denying you, questioning you, and consuming you', then you must cut off contact with them as soon as possible.
If you must contact, don't play the role of a good person.
My own image in the eyes of my parents is no longer good, disobedient, unable to speak human language, and with a particularly bad temper, I started shouting without saying a few words.
I don't do this to others, only when I talk to them, because not doing so is really not good, it will kill me (if I give them a little good face, they will ride on my neck and poop).
My life is already refreshing, but they are still my source of negative energy, so I must clean it up and never let them talk nonsense to me.
In fact, life is very short, and there are not many things that truly matter to us. However, our inner energy should always be placed first, and no one can shake it.
Anyone who weakens your energy must be cleared from your life.
Some people say that with the advancement of technology and healthcare, everyone has lived a long life. Then they will list which cities are at the top of the life expectancy ranking.
I think this is a great insult to intelligence.
Because today's long-lived elderly people, when they were young, their growth environment was completely different from ours.
The internal and external troubles they experienced back then were not of the same magnitude as the internal and external troubles we experienced.
I don't believe that people who eat junk food, breathe polluted air, run around all day to pay the mortgage and worry about their children's education in big cities will live longer.
The probability of short life is high.
All kinds of internal worries and external troubles are consuming our energy. At this time, you should stop worrying mentally. It's really great to be a arrogant and stubborn "bad person".