Hey guys😌 I want to talk about friends this night, well I dnt knw whether its night in your place, but as for me its night here in Nigeria.
Well let's get to the point, we all know we have fake friends and real friends. Let's start with fake friends. I don't know whether its only in Nigeria that we have fake friends so to say. Because everywhere you go, you just hear fake friends here and there, memes are all about fake friend and figuring them out.
In this world now, things are happening, some people now think, there is nothing like real friends.
Firstly, before you, as a person should think about fake friends, ask yourself am I fake? How do I treat my friends? Am I real to my friends? Well I think if you have answered this questions then we can move forward.
If your answers were negative, then u shouldn't b complaining about fake friends rather u should work on being a real friend. But if they are positive-negative, when I say positve-negative I mean that instant where you are a real friend but because you think you have a fake friend, then u start being fake too. Then you need to read further. Most at times the reason for fake friends is most friends are waiting to see who their real friend is, like you not calling your friend but waiting for ur friend to call u in the other hand the friend is also doing the same thing or doing things to find out whether ur friend is fake or not.
The point here is, by doing all those stuffs its making u look fake. yeah it is
Real friends can be like 'is he my friend because I have money' or 'why does it seem like he is after what I am able to give' well its a great question, some friends fake friends in particular are after that, while there are real friends that are not after that, but because of their circumstances, you as their friend will think they are after that.
Its complicated right, I know.
Let me tell you how to identify a fake friend try to understand ur friend. I have come across people that say ahhh! Why will I understand her now? are we dating? So funny, the fact is that its a relationship, understanding has to be there the fact is that if there is no understanding that's how u will loose a good friend thinking he\she is fake when they are not.
Friendship is just like relationship between partners the only difference is that no sex involved.
So try to understand your friend and stop thinking they are fake when they actually are not.and stop focusing on the fact that they may be fake
Hope you had a great sunday.meet my friends
