Is Rejection a failure?

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Have you ever being denied of some opportunities? Have you been rejected before either in your workplace or at home or within your friends or at school?

Do not worry you are not alone and you are never a failure because rejection is never a failure.

All imperfect humans do experience different hard trials in life, and most times some are ready to try again, while others seem to give up even after experiencing minor difficulties?

Consider this scenario, imagine you are invited to a job interview, after the interview you knew you actually tried your best but you got turn down. How will you view yourself? Will you view yourself as if no one would like to hire someone like you? Or will you think you are a failure completely. Having such thinking run through your mind is the essence of pessimism (focussing or anticipating on negative situation).

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How can you fight pessimism

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First you need to recognize the negative thoughts then the next thing to do is to fight against them immediately. Find a reasonable alternative explanations immediately to think about. For example, reasoned why you were turned down, was it really because no one would hire you for a job? Or could it be that the employer was simply looking for someone with other qualifications that fit in with the position to hire ?

Use facts to expose those pessimistic thoughts that are overreacting. For example, does the rejection really mean that you are a total failure, or can you think of other areas in your life that you are successful?

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Be positive and goal oriented

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If you have hope, you will be able to stay positive and set a goal because hope makes you belief in yourself, hope will help you reach out to develop positive thinking to achieve your goals. Tell yourself I can do it challenge yourself to meet your goals.

Let me give you another example, Imagine a footballer running on a field, playing match then his step on a stone or could step on anything on the floor and fall Will you feel that he is a failure, give up and leave the field? Absolutely not, He will get up and continue in his competition and this is because he has a goal of being in a winning team and he want to achieve it.

Similarly, when challenges such as turning you down happens, do not feel like a failure rather, take it as an opportunity to experience such happenings and try it from another angle this time take note of your mistakes and correct them while on the track again. Having hope that you can achieve it, stay positive and see how successful you will be

Improve your personality, to review your personality, take a personality test and see areas you can improve on. Therefore, to meet future goals of improving your personality, build up a record of setting goals and meeting them .

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If you really want to be successful in any areas of your life, expect to experience failure first. You know when you are successful, you will find real happiness, so to be sure to avoid making others sad, avoid picking success from the basket you didn't create (another person's success) because you will never be successful.

Personally I like staying positive and in my household I am given the name queen of positivity. I do know people experience negative moments in their life and I do sometimes feel that if I also dwell in the negative aspect of my life it will affect the feelings of other people , therefore, I try to remain positive letting go of any negativity that I faces each day.i feel encourage by encouraging others.

I believe that staying positive will always make my neighbours my friends or anyone around me to also stay positive and recently I have tried to motivate anyone that is around me to achieve success, I have that personality in me and it makes me happy

So today I just feel like encouraging someone, I thought of encouraging you, I thought of encouraging anyone reading this post that he or she is never a failure when you face rejection and I hope you find it beneficial.