I actually had one of my best conversations in a long time today, and I don't know if the other guy knew how much his response meant to me.
Y'all know that I'm a straight man, and a libertarian. The other guy is an older gay man, and pretty far to the left.
At one point in the conversation, I brought up what Douglas Murray said about the LGBTQIA+ community, which was, "There are no two groups on the planet which have less in common than gay men and asexuals."
He just laughed, acknowledging the truth of the statement.
Then he offered the correct libertarian observation -- that if they keep adding letters, everyone will be in the community.
Right! We can go back to the crazy idea of treating people as individuals!