Whenever I think that someone (including myself) needs to be straightened, beginning to think in terms of a lack. And nothing is moving through the mindset of lack... This is a real paradox. If I think something needs straightened, the straightening becomes impossible. If I I understand that can't be fixed, not broken. The key in this sentence is the word “I,"”. What I think, determine, drama or no drama. Because we want things to be perfect, always trying to change the experience. One of the most important practices of the Mind of Christ is the adoption. What, however, we find that it is easy to accept life the way it is going, as it shows?
Most of us are trying to practice acceptance, but we understand that we have nothing to find, constantly, a node in rohoziv experience of our. When we realize this, we can choose between us to punish or to accept the fact. If we fail to achieve success than to stress and more our helplessness to take. This can become a vicious circle in which we constantly believe. Therefore, we must learn to be aware of what is happening, without judging.
When we are quiet, we don't need him to fix something or someone, anyone would. If anything should change, changes will happen by themselves. Should not be forced. No processing is required.
We carry, as we would in combat, with the only difference that it has a place in our minds.
Listen without reaction
Sometimes we try to fix them in other ways, more subtle. When our friends say, apparently listening, but often we do it through our own filters. In our minds we or not agree to what I say in the context of our beliefs. Most often when friends make us, we believe that we address the invitation to them to analyze the situation and to give advice. One of the key practices of the mind of Christ is to listen without prejudice. If people demand a replica, we tell them that we think we understand what they say, as I have heard, indeed, of course.
When giving advice, we are in their problems. Normally it would be, so we understand that we already have enough problems in their own lives, as we need that we take on ourselves and our problems. In addition, we are unable to understand in the context of another person's life. Even those decisions that were good for us is not necessarily suitable for other. When shall we give advice we are not benevolent nor generous. Rather, and attacked. If we want to be good, must take it as it is and stop them to change their lives.
We are not able to offer opinions or solutions, but we can leave it to know what I heard and what answers he had already been in them since they are already in all of us. When we have the confidence that others will find their answers, several spiritual equal...
The important thing is that we know what they don't know. We don't want them to get it new. We draw on people, respect and freedom. We have faith that the truth, they will light the way. It is love in action!
Us from ourselves on all levels, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually, we will be able to respond to others in the most patient, affectionate and compassionate possible.
Perhaps, for some of us, it's a revelation to learn that we are not here to save the other, their pain, and just how to overcome it, in our. It our main responsibility in the present.
Even when we unite life with the life of another person, the responsibility remains ours.”