Loneliness is a negative mood. Solitude is positive, despite what the dictionary says. In the dictionary, loneliness and solitude are synonymous – in life. Loneliness is a state of mind in which you constantly missing each other. Solitude is a feeling, when you're constantly in awe of you. Solitude means unhappiness. Solitude means happiness. Loneliness is always concerned about, he needs something, wants something, wants something. Solitude is a deep, deep gratitude, happiness, celebration. Loneliness you. Privacy, show yourself, you is fixed. Privacy, beautiful. It's surrounded by elegance, thanks to the fantastic climate of gratitude. Loneliness is a beggar; all this cerșeală and nothing more. Has no grace; in fact, it is ugly. Loneliness means, dependence, solitude, means absolute independence. You feel like the whole world could be yours, the whole existence is yours.
Well, if you enter a relationship, when you feel lonely, you will use on the other. The other will become a means to satisfy you. You will use the other, and no one likes to be used, because no one is here to be a vehicle for the other.
Each person is an end in itself. Nobody is here to fulfill someone else's expectations, everybody is here to be himself. So, whenever you enter the loneliness in the relationship, the relationship is already on the hearse. It's a hearse even before. The child was born dead. Relationship you he will not die and more, unfortunately.
And, please note when you enter a relationship because you need solitude, man's laws, the relations are in the same situation, because no one lives in real solitude, will not be attracted to you. You're too down. Not more likely to sympathize with you but not love you. He who is in the top of solitude can be attracted by someone single.
So, when you go after the lonely, let a person of the same type; you give your reflection. This meeting of two poor, between two unhappy people. And when there are two unfortunate people, each each other a lot more misfortune than them that will not die alone. The meeting of two unfortunate people, misfortune is not summed, but multiplied.
First, be lonely. First, be happy you loves you. First, be so genuine happy, it doesn't matter if no one comes. You are full. If nobody knocks at your door, very well, you have nothing to lose. Do not wait for anyone to come to your house, knock on the door. You're home – if somebody comes, good, beautiful. If no one comes, all well and good. In the end, you enter a relationship and you enter, as master, not as a beggar. You enter like the Emperor, not like a beggar.
A person who lives alone will always be appealing to another person and she is beautiful seclusion, because birds of a feather flock together. When there are two masters – a master at being their, the seclusion, happiness is not just going to multiply. Their meeting is a wonderful celebration. And they don't exploit each other, not use each other. On the contrary, become one and enjoy the existence that surrounds them.
Two lonely people meeting always face. Two people who knew solitude, United by a common interest, goal, high, distant. They looked at each other, but from something higher than they. Maybe holding hands, but looking at the moon in the depths of heaven. Sometimes listening together to the Symphony of Mozart or Beethoven or Wagner. Sometimes you may sit beside a waterfall and listen to the wild music that sings the water that falls into the void.
No, two people who are very happy in their souls, not trying to use each other. On the contrary, become fellow travelers, is on a pilgrimage. But when there are two single individuals, looking on one another, because are constantly searching for ways and means to exploit each other, use each other to be happy one another. The total interest that you, as a rule, two people is sex. Sex can unite at the moment two people, casually and superficially. True lovers have a common interest above. Not that between them can not be sex; there are, but as part of the harmony top. Love occurs in the highest part of the harmony. And when love happens by itself, a thoughtful, quality entirely separately. It is a divine, not a human...