We aren't all born for the same destiny, some were loved unconditionally, some perhaps even more, not so much.
Some were born into wealth and privilege, those are the few, but the majority of us were not.
That's not to say that those born in wealth and privilege experienced unconditional love either. That is pretty obvious.
But, no matter, no one controls our life but we ourselves.
That is the lesson we are each here to learn. No one is in charge of you but you.