When we are at our best, life becomes easier and lighter. When you love or appreciate yourself better than others then things just become easier. You will not make mountains out of mole huts (or just out of plain air). You will not drag yourself down or beat your head against the wall over trivial mistakes or poor performance. The only thing you have to do is to make your life easier by simply letting go of the bad habits and focusing on the good ones.
We all have bad habits that we have picked up from our parents or society at large. Some people pick up bad habits and hang them over their heads. These bad habits are what cause many problems. They can cause you to not reach your goals, or cause you to feel unfulfilled when you reach them.
If you are suffering from bad habits, you may need to break them. This is where it gets interesting. Many people will try to beat bad habits, but they end up beating themselves up even harder. It is best to keep your good habits strong and your bad habits in check.
One way to beat bad habits is to focus on the positive. Focus on the good aspects and you will begin to see them. If you focus on the negative, you will start to see it more clearly.
When you feel good about yourself, people around you will notice and respect you. When you feel bad about yourself, people around you will notice and respect you less. The more you treat yourself well, the more respect you will receive and the easier it is for people around you to treat you.
The more you feel good about yourself, the easier it is for others to feel good about you. So focus on feeling good. if you want other people to feel good about you. When people see how good you feel, it will spread through the social circle.
Sometimes it takes hard work to break bad habits. You need to be willing to make some sacrifices to get your bad habits under control. But these will be worth it. You will be so much better off for it.
Life does get easier and lighter when we have a purpose. When we find our purpose and take charge of our lives. We find the joy and passion in doing what matters most to us. We are better able to live our life well.