Take control of the heart to never be talkative in evaluating others, especially if there is someone who makes mistakes that others do, don't easily follow along with judgment, really you don't deserve to do it.
Even though it is true that he who heard the mistake made a mistake, it is inappropriate that you immediately gave him a judgment, because his fault is God's business, not your business.
Don't just because you heard what they did wrong, it doesn't mean you can arbitrarily judge them.
Because after all the mistakes are made, you never know what difficulties have been endured until finally he is in an improper condition.
You never know what has pressured his life, until finally he must fall into a bad state.
Then rather than you go along with giving him a cruel judgment, you better pray for him to be given guidance by Allah.
You also never know what choices have tormented him, until finally he must be tormented with the choices he has already set.
So, don't just value him from your hearing, but look at the reality, look at how difficult he is, and understand with heart not with mind so that you don't end up with judgment.
Yes, be wise in judging other people, do not necessarily punish cruel and say they are bad, if you know only from the judgment of others.
It is very unfair if you have to look from your ears, whereas you have God blessed the eyes to see what is right and what is false.
Again, don't judge someone from his words, but look at the real reality of his life. Afraid he made a mistake indeed because he was faced with complicated choices.
And if you have already done so, you have already cornered, while what is conveyed by others is not in accordance with the existing reality, only regret will be received.