The old [your name] is gone, but who cares ... You would not want to say that when you're gone, are not you? But will something change if you are writing your own tombstone right now? Let's check ...
In Charles Dickens' "Christmas Song", Scrooge is admired by three specters.
The first two, the Specter of the Past and the Specter of the Present, showed him how egoism made him lonely and unhappy. Only when the Specter of the Future appears to him and leads Scrooge to his neglected and forgotten grave, he finally changes his character and becomes more generous and compassionate. Dickens serves the effect of looking into the future and the contemplation of life after death, but not many psychologists have done the same, and their discoveries show that the transformation of Scrooge, in this case artistic fiction, can also happen in real life.
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Author:Kidtastic TV
Imagine that your very good friend is standing in front of your grave and talking just fine things about you. Write a script for your friend. What do you really want to talk about?
Do not be modest, but be realistic.
How would you describe your personality, success, personal qualities, your family life, professional success and your attitude to other people?
When you write all this, look slowly and carefully in the written and make sure that you have made a fair assessment of your perfect self. Does your current way of life and behavior coincide with what you have written, or is there anything else to work on?
Do not say anything, think ..