I am still coming to terms with the fact that Kobe Bryant is no more.

If there's anything to take away from this unfortunate accident is ; Nobody knows the time or the hour, always live today like it's your last day. Put your house in order, incase anything so random and unexpected happens to you, there will be peace and order for those left behind

Of course this are things we are constantly saying, but how practical are we about them? What would happen to yourloved ones if you passed on today? Would they have a peace of mind?(of course there's going to be grieving and hurt, don't get me wrong) Would they be worse of? That would be the real tragedy.

Put your finances in order as much as you can, put your morgages in order, make sure their health coverage is always up to date, as well as your own, just you never know...

On that note, I feel very compelled to share this...

Can you even imagine how difficult it was for him in that moment? The moment he knew that not only his own life was about to end, but that of his daughter...a life he helped create.Can you imagine how he felt as a father knowing he couldn't protect her?Can you imagine him holding her, consoling her, telling her he loved her as that helicopter went down?

As a parent, I can tell you, Kobe Bryant's greatest fear was realized today. And it wasn't the fear for his own life, but for that of his beautiful daughter.Because as a parent, your life means nothing in comparison to the lives of your children.We live for our children. We breathe for our children. They are our reason for being.We would also die for them, without hesitation.

Without question, without a moments notice, we would lay down our own lives to ensure theirs.Just thinking of his internal struggle in those last moments tears my heart into pieces.He knew his daughter's young life was ending. He knew he was leaving 3 other precious children behind. Oh, how his heart must have ached!Can you even imagine the agony that played out in his mind? Every parents worst nightmare happening to him in real time.

He was there when his sweet girl took her first breath, and he was there with her when she took her last.And that's the only solace I can find in this...that he was there. In her final moments, her daddy was there to remind her of his undying love.And with everything in me, I hope that baby felt every ounce of love her daddy had for her. I hope it overwhelmed her, and carried her straight into paradise.Because I know that's all her daddy wanted too.

> Rest in piece Kobe and Gigi. Our hearts mourn you ❤

> Hug your children extra tight tonight, mamas and daddies. Tomorrow is never promised.

Also, this song always reminds me to live today like my last, hope you enjoy it...