In the long journey of life, no one will always be with us except ourselves, so no matter who we are with, we must remember the following points:
Only you can really help yourself
In our lives, there are no nobles, ideals and opportunities. Finally, only you can truly help yourself. This is not sadness, but truly responsible for your own life.
When encountering difficulties, don't complain that no one helps you, but seriously consider what you can do for yourself.
Many times, we always think that people who ask for help can get help, but we don't know that people who are great are great because they know how to help themselves.
In addition, other people may be able to help you for a period of time, but they will not be able to help you all the time.
Everyone has their own difficulties to overcome. Don't place too much hope on others, and don't rely too much on the help of others. No matter how many friends you have, the person who can really help you in adversity will always be yourself!
The only person who really knows you is yourself
Many times, we always want to tell all our thoughts and worries to people who can understand ourselves.
When I have troubles, I want to find someone to talk to, but find that others don't care at all.
Only then did I realize that in this world, we are all independent individuals, and we can only bear our own pain.
No one can really understand you. If the stone is not hit on others' feet, others will never know how painful it is.
On the road of life, we are all lonely walkers.
For friends, no matter how good the relationship is, they can only give you some simple comfort and encouragement. The only person who truly understands you is yourself. Therefore, we don't have to demand that everyone can understand our inner pain.
Only you can digest your emotions; only you can soothe your mood; only you can adjust your state.
This may be difficult, but when you push away the clouds and mist, it is light. Knowing how to save yourself is half the solution.
The only person who really satisfies you is yourself
As long as people are alive, they will always look forward to others' praise and desire to be recognized by others, as if others must see their efforts so that their hard work will not be wasted.
But the fact is often that when you dress carefully, your lover turns a blind eye; if you do things seriously, others may not appreciate it, so you will be very disappointed.
As the saying goes: "The one who pleases others is to please others, and the one who pleases oneself is the king."
We live not to please the world, but to please ourselves better.
When I was young, I liked roses, and I thought it was very charming; when I got older, I liked nightflowers more, it blooms at night, no one pays attention, just to please myself.
We don't have to worry about disagreements with others. The same flower will bloom with different beauty. Today I only do happy things. I use my rhythm, which I call happiness.
Only those who know how to please themselves can find leisure in life, leisure is the primitive ecological freedom, just like flowers blooming and birds flying.
Therefore, under the premise of not being selfish, we must learn to love ourselves, pamper ourselves, and leave more precipitation for ourselves.
There are not too many philosophies in life. Only letting oneself live a comfortable and comfortable life is the best explanation for oneself.
British poet Wilde said: To love yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance!