The journey to find your place in life is over... you are already home!
People often talk about using various modalities and medicines to heal the self to become whole again. The big secret is that you are already whole!
What prevents you from understanding and believing you are already everything you need to be? The short answer is: advertising, entertainment media, much of social conditioning/engineering, sometimes your parents and friends, and you.
That's right! You are the one who can make the choice at any time to believe what you want to believe. We often think we are not enough because of environmental and societal messages. But at the end of the day, we all are allowed to believe anything we want to believe for ourselves.
The next time that voice in your head rings out "I'm not pretty enough, I'm not strong enough, I'm not smart enough" or anything of the like, take a minute to question whose voice that is. Most likely, it's not really yours. It can probably be attributed to a parent, an advertisement, or a significant other (either past or current).
Don't make the mistake of allowing ANYTHING outside of you determine what you believe! There is no prettier or uglier, no too short or too tall... "ugly" compared to WHAT??? When you outsource your beliefs, you will always be working towards satisfying someone other than yourself and this will always lead to disappointment... ALWAYS.
Push yourself to become smarter, stronger, faster, or more radiant because you KNOW you can achieve more than you are now. Do it for you to test your own potential, not to "win" against someone else or to gain acceptance of "society"... whatever that is. You will always be you and nobody else, so do it well for you.
Stop comparing yourself to anyone or anything. You are already home.