7 fears about sex that don’t let you enjoy it

How to overcome sexual fears

Sex is fantastic for most of us. However, it is indeed an intimate subject and can have severe and lasting effects. Many people have gender-related fears that are deeply rooted in their psyche, so they can no longer appreciate sex. It may be due to past experiences that have not been shown to be good, to the consequences to which they have exposed or to the presence of envy in the dictates of their bodies. Here we examine these fears and what can be done to overcome them.

Fear that leads to pregnancy

Feel that PREGNANCY DRIVES: for two adults who agree to have sex, but pregnancy may not want the fear of making them have fun. If a condom used correctly, there is very little chance that the woman is pregnant. If you think you are not sure how to attract your partner or yourself, you can consult this guide (How to use a condom). Although the fear is vast and overwhelming, it could be due to the experience of having an unplanned pregnancy. If so, it does not hurt to seek psychotherapy to eliminate the fear of having an unplanned pregnancy.

Fear of pain

Fear of pain: it is common in women who are not sexual and thought that virginity, if not better, at least one condition without pain. This is due to the twisted idea that the first sex should cause pain. Please keep in mind that there should be no pain. You and your partner should take it slowly, use a lubricant when necessary and enjoy the action.

Problems with body image

QUESTIONS ABOUT THE IMAGE OF THE BODY: Most people who were intimate with someone fear that their partner does not like their nudity. In fact, almost 90% of sexual anxiety associated with physical problems. These uncertainties are not exclusive but are shared by all. To be honest, your trust and emotional connection with your partner is also essential. Therefore, concentrate on it, and you will quickly realize that you feel so naked with your partner that you are alone.

Fear of bad smell

The fear of bad breath: it is as familiar as the uncertainties related to your body. They often ask: "Do I feel that?" Before approaching someone, you can take the water out of your mouth or the deodorant, which may not bring it closer to your partner. Well, the only way out is to use one next time.

Fear of being unable to meet

Fear of not having sex: This is more common among men since they often ask: "Is my penis big enough?" Can I wait a long time? Or "What happens if I ejaculate too soon or before she has an orgasm?" It's not all about his fault; Pornography and fitness models have set unrealistic goals for all of us. Then, just start. It is doubtful that your partner is in front of you with a porn star.

Fear of uninvited body functions, such as  farts 

Fear of unexpected bodily functions, as in FARTS: We often ask ourselves: "What if I get scammed if I fall on top?" Or "What if I have to snore when we kiss?" Gasser's sex is the last thing anyone wants on this earth. There are ways to avoid it. It jumps the mouth and omits the positions that exert pressure on the rectal cavity. For more information, you can read here (Do you feel too hot to have sex? This is how to do it)

Fear of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). 

Fear of sexually transmitted diseases: This is legitimate even if you are dating the same person for three years and also if you are still using protection. Sexually transmitted infections can occur through oral sex and may remain inactive in one of the partners. But keep in mind that most of them are easily curable. To improve things, you can control yourself and your partner.