Hi, 

I had been reading and thinking about realistic positivity lately and here I have come up with few thoughts to share with you.

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Positivity

As a fan of simple words, I would say Positivity is a feeling or an attitude that leads to think only of good results or positive outcomes. 

• It really increases your confidence and reversibly confidence also helps build positivity.
• It helps maintaining your cool.
• Inspires others: Many people surrounding you may get motivated by the way you take your life.

Consequences:

Most of the time we are optimist about a good outcome and that`s a good thing. But isn`t it incomplete just to think up to here that yes we get succeed and to pretend like everything is alright?.  Don`t get me wrong here I`m not trying to discourage you to . I`m not saying to stop believing in your dreams..

But sometimes we are more than confident about success.. (Yes yes, Overconfident). And it gets worst when we start dreaming big never considering the possible complications in doing so. Being realistic is a tough thing I know, We often run from reality. Dreaming big is of course a good thing but you never  forgetting who you are and what are your real talents.  If you are with extraordinary focus, much needed determination then things are different :) ..

 Realistic Positive thinking

• Think Positive but be sure it is realistic. Most of the time people run from the truth. I too did. But one day circumstances for sure will let you realize who exactly you are.
• Find out the truth about you
• We`ll improve us for sure after accepting once at what condition right now we are. 
• There is no reason to think about and waste our time in something where we are not good at, It`s up to you and only you to dig yourself to know what you are good at.
• There are many other things to do if you are not interested in something but still in it just because of any other reasons.

What is not actually realistic positive thinking?

• Thinking every time what you are doing is right.
• Thinking and only thinking (often getting motivated by a certain source) what you are doing right now will lead you to be a successful man..
• Thinking that if you`re positive then always good will happen with you.

Why Realistic Positive Thinking?

• It helps you realizing your real strength.
• It won`t take you out of reach of your boundaries so that you can recover from any situations in your life.
• It helps to build a strong focus in your work excluding else

Conclusion

    This post never aims to discourage anyone.  It is always better to focus on something we have the strength for and not wasting time in something we don`t have the reach and will for. I never mean that you should not try. Everybody is unique. Accept the truth and do whatever you like.

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