Everyone has an inner voice and judging people didn't make you a better person. Your inner voice is your internal warning system to you, your conscience. Listen for it when people are talking about you, and change what you hear. Your inner voice is the voice inside your head that lets you know if you are being cheated on or being used. It lets you know if you are being influenced by the weak minded, or the ones that have a more positive mind set.
Everyone wants to be judged a better person. But how many of us are really judged a better person? I believe only a few of us really are.
A lot of us end up with careers that we are not happy with, because we think that our bosses are right. We would rather do something that we are not happy with, rather than doing what our bosses want us to do. But it is the same thing, the company that gave us the job is the one that makes us what we are.
Do you know what the right thing to do would usually be? If you do not know the answer to that question, do some research, and find out. If you work for someone else, and they make you work hard, do not be too upset with them, they are doing what is necessary to get the business, and make you a good worker. If you work for yourself, and you feel as if you are being made to work hard, and nothing is going right, you need to ask yourself, why are you doing this? Is this the kind of life that you were taught to live?
In life there are always people that are going to try to get you to do what they want, or make you do things that you don't want to do. It does not matter what kind of people are. A good boss is a good boss. A bad boss is a bad boss. The key is not to look at the people who are making you do things wrong, but to look inside yourself.
Why do people act the way they do and think the way they do? What caused them to do that? Are they really good at what they do? Are they just playing you for a fool, so that they can get away with what they are really doing?
To figure out what exactly is going on in your brain, you would have to ask yourself, why am I acting this way, and why is this happening to me? What did I learn in college that taught me to be a good judge of character? Was I taught in school to be a good judge of character? Where did I learn this? Am I just stupid at judgment?
You can find out the truth about yourself, when you stop judging people. Stop looking inside at yourself, and start looking at other people. People act how they feel inside, and if you can find out what is really going on inside of them, then you can judge them better. Then, you will know what kind of person you are, and you can change it.
Some people are naturally good at judging others, and some are not. Those who are not naturally good at it, can train themselves to become better at it. They will have to work at it, but they would be surprised how well they can become at it. There is no reason for you not to become a better judge of character, because if you don't, you are not going to achieve success in life.
Now, if you think that those people that didn't do really well in school, that is their problem, not yours. If they truly can't handle the pressure of being judged by other people, they can't handle the pressure of life. If they truly are talented in what they do, they can learn how to judge better and become better at it. If they truly are good at it, and you are trying to teach them, then they too can become better at it.
The same thing happens with you. You can judge yourself and make mistakes. You can make many mistakes and still succeed. You can judge yourself and think that someone else is better than you at something. But you are wrong. You are not better than anyone.
