We teach to fight, fights are glorious. Fights are synonymous with power. I know it will sound crazy if I say to surrender yourself. Because surrender means we are less powerful, we lose, we are not brave enough. But the thing is surrendering can bring peace of mind.
Let me make it a little more clear!
I'm talking about surrender in a relationship, surrender in spirituality, surrendering our harmful attitudes. Surrender means we must summon our negativity, anxiety, anger and practice kindness & love.
Now I guess you get a clear idea that surrendering is not always bad. Rather it comes with many good things which can help us improve our life.
Don't fight with your inner self, don't try to prove what you are not. Acceptance is a great thing for life and to do that surrendering can be a good option. Our ego-self always tries to win and afraid to fail. It will always force us to fight even if that's not right, even if that harmful for us and harm others. Because we don't surrender. We have to understand that this is not a bad thing. There's no loss in this.
Practice gratitude, kindness, politeness, and thankfulness. This natural virtue can make us feel that life is not a competition and we always don't have to win. Yeah, we should fight for our right, we should raise our vice if something is wrong. But the internal fight in ourselves, the cold fight among relationships can ruin our life. And if I talk about spirituality then there's nothing peaceful than surrendering yourself.
However, this understanding and realization wouldn't come easily. But if we can put some intentional effort we can surrender ourselves and bring peace of mind!