In life there will be things that we can’t control and we can’t change, no matter how much we try. Being stuck in your actual reality and destroying whatever could become your future is a horrible idea.
Life is about evolution, about changes – you have to give up old things, difficult ones, and direct your life towards new, beautiful and positive ones.
To do that, you have to take action and learn how to make hard decisions. It will take time and a lot of determination to start, but once you do it, good things will keep coming in your life in an incredible way.
Starting today, convince yourself that some things don’t deserve your attention. These are the things you have to delete from your life in order to see how beautiful is the road you’re on.
Get rid of “what if”, stop thinking about what you did or didn’t do
Time travel is still just a theory so you can’t go back and change something. Just accept the fact that things don’t go as you wish in life. Even the best things, no matter how strong they seem at first, can be destroyed. If you can’t change something, why keep thinking about it?
And if you can’t stop thinking about those things, try to see them as a part of your life that was meant to happen for you to learn something. Convince your mind that the past is the past and the present is right now. Regret shouldn’t be a part of your life. Stay in this moment.
Stop replacing decisions with excuses
I know, there are some moments when you just want to press pause and don’t do anything at all. There are moments when you have to make hard decisions, sometimes unfair, in order to get where you want to. In these kind of moments it’s possible for you to find excuses, without making a step forward.
The worst thing you can do is to refuse to accept the changes that have to be done. Be brave enough to do what’s best for you. Don’t let your mind play games with you.
Give up old habits that no longer represent you
People change. You are changing along with the world around you. Like a caterpillar has to stay in a cocoon to become a butterfly, you have to get rid of old habits that aren’t good for you anymore. At one point they might have been a part of your life, but you have to analyze yourself and accept the fact that you are changing and evolving.
Stop believing that everything has to be perfect
There are good days and bad ones. It’s impossible to have a perfect life, no one does. It’s okay to make mistakes, to go through rough times, to feel alone, to be unhappy sometimes, to suffer over a breakup and so on. It’s all a part of life.
But moving forward is the biggest human virtue. You have the power to get back up on your feet, you have the power to make changes in order to be happy!
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-Thanks, @jwolf-
Thanks for posting this
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Beautiful .. I liked the tips
A great post from you done well
Thanks for sharing this with us
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So smart for your age
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Thank you! Many told me I am too mature for my age!
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Like Manny from Modern Family
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I just learnt that one should not be stuck in actual reality. Nothing at all is permanent.
We truly have to give up the old things and move on with life no matter what.
Fear of uncertainty has really caused a lot of issues for people through thoughts.
There are ofcourse good and bad days. It’s impossible to have a perfect life.
So we should take life as it comes and keep moving as life is moving.
What an amazing post @jwolf
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These are actually things to get rid off. They all belong to the negative category and they have a way of dragging an individual backward without even noticing.
Have a wonderful weekend @jwolf
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Thank you! Same to you!
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hahahahhaha what is that post waisting of time dear
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Gracias por tus recomendaciones, @jwolf. Es necesario en este momento que todos sepamos que el cambio está en cada uno de nosotros. De qué sirve estar quejarnos, si no hacemos nada para cambiar el panorama. Si no te gusta algo, muévete. Los únicos que están anclados son los árboles, y aun así cambian y pierden hojas y frutos con el tiempo. Entonces, empecemos a sacar todo lo malo aunque con nuestra decisión salgamos de nuestra zona de confort y dejemos en nuestra vida lo que en este momento me hace bien. Agradezco tu post. Saludos
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yeah so true . one should stop believing everything has to be perfect. even the richest to the rags will have their own problems. all we are designed to overcome them . after all we are humans blessed with the beautiful brain and art of thinking :)
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This post has received a 2.17 % upvote from @booster thanks to: @jwolf.
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the challenges will come and go they will test the best out of us but we need to keep evolving
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Difficult times are always part of life but the ability for us to move on is what makes us great.
Beautiful write up
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Yes, it is important to move forward daily and to not allow anything in the past to stop you from acting in the now. It took me time to fully understand this, but now I know if I am letting something hold me back or make me sad, it is a concious decision. There is a time and place for feeling sad, but you can't let that stop you from living a full life.
Steemit is a great place where I know I will come every day to make new works that I will be proud of.
Finding that in other aspects of life may be hard, but by applying your strength and wisdom, it will bring you to the places you wish to be. Thanks for the wisdom my friend.
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your post is very good,
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Have you read it...?
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good steemit user, I see your wallet that is buy upvote i think that is very hard work good job dear god give u more
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upvote post me thanks
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