Assalamu alaikum ,
With the start of this new day i hope everyone good wishes and success in whatever good they are planning to do.
So as a new day has started we will be working towards achieving something but few of us will face difficulty because of some unwanted reasons. Do you think about people too often and are you too concerned about who loves/likes you or who hates you.
If yes , then this reason is alone enough for you to face difficulty in achieving your targets. People will not like or dislike you according to your will and if someone has a point of view about you that makes them hate you it is alright.
Why do you want to give that person so much importance when that person hardly cares about you. Be mature and start asking yourself if you love yourself and if you love what you are doing because that is what really matters.
There are so many people you know and you can't make them all love you but there is only one you and making yourself love you is alot lot easier compared to the first option. Unfortunately our life is wasted thinking and concerning about what others are doing.
This also becomes a reason for us to not live happily because we kill our happiness with our own hands. We see others and when we do that we start seeing what they have and what makes them happy and then we actually stop setting goals for ouself.
We work towards achieving what makes other happy because if we are successful in doing that others will praise us. So the conclusion is we did everything for praise from others. If you think there is nothing wrong in doing it that's alright. I just shared my view point.
Thank You