Having Self Confidence just makes you conceited! When you are confident you will make everyone around you, See you as a total jerk! You can avoid people hating on you, By becoming less confident.
Become Jealous
You should feel threatened and crappy when people are doing better than you in life! There aren't enough slots for everyone to be successful. When other people are doing well, you should be hurt, And take it as personally as you can. They are only doing well to hurt you, And make you look bad. Their success makes them rude and impolite!
When you act out in jealousy, You show your friends and family your feelings towards what they are doing to you. And that the only person in this world who deserves success, Is you!
Live In The Past!
If you've made mistakes in the past, You are a bad person.
You should always beat yourself up for those mistakes and never forgive yourself. It's unacceptable to be happy Because those mistakes you made never should have happened! You screwed up. Now punish yourself for it!
I constantly remind myself about the mistakes I've made. I have made mistakes in past relationships, and as a result, I don't ever deserve to have a healthy relationship. It would be ridiculous for me to feel like I deserve happiness.
Never forgive yourself for past mistakes.
Need Other Peoples Approval
When you do things that are different or scary, You should always seek the approval of everyone else around you! If they don't give you the approval you want, Then you should change what you are doing immediately and apologize. Everyone else's opinion is more important than yours ever will be! If you can't get people to love and approve you, You are doing something wrong! You must be a people pleaser and make everyone happy.
Conclusion
Self-confidence is silly! It makes you a bad person. You fail to live up to others expectations; You may not get jealous, When you rightfully should and living in the present doesn't allow people to learn from all of their horrible mistakes!
This post is a joke!
@lauralemons Drew me !
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I think perfectionist just lack the ability to find the perfection in everyone's differences. I'm self confident enough to appreciate my own individuality and appreciate other people for theirs and I'm self reflective enough to know when I'm being an asshole. I try to find the balance. :)
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Best way to be friend.
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I neeeed your approval of this comment and all of my posts to have any self worth!
LOL.....couldn't help myself ;-)
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WOW! You got me on that one ;)
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Haha....walked right into that one girl! :-) I was being a wise@ss but always appreciate the support!
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Great advice! Love the post, esp the part about living in the past, that's always a tough one. Thanks for sharing...
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I wont limit my light because someone elses insecurity.
Kings & Queens make others around them better.
Great Content Beloved. 🙏
Yours Truly,
#Theeillgloryfactory
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@kaylinart were it not for you as my cyber-therapist I would have taken the nearest bridge many moons ago ! Thank you for the creative inspiration to go on even further ~ WAHOOOOOOO !! ~*
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We are responsible for our self-confidence. I look at it as a plant. If you don't care about it, it will eventually be attacked by various insects and microorganisms and without the water, it will die, leaving you fighting and struggling through your life. Watch that plant!
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I agree, also water helps a great deal.
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Hahahahahahahh!!!
Excellent!
I actually read your posts which is unusual! Maybe i need to have less confidence in you, to make sure ill read the next one ;) , :p
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I only need to say, your article is on point.🏌🏾 Helping others only works when they don't return the favor by pulling you down in the process. Loving people doesn't require conformity, especially when it may be of the regressive type
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I love it! Lol
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great post , check this out for a sec: read this amazing post and leave your comment too: https://steemit.com/steemit/@pastorlea/here-are-the-characteristics-of-love
you can leave a comment too and follow me too, have a nice night!
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Great share. Thanks for everything. This platform is so supportive. I love you guys!
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It is really supportive. Let us support ourseves more follow me @yaanivapeji
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In the reality of the world today, people have become perfectionists. That is probably the worst new evolved trait we as humans could have. We forget we are spiritual beings having a human experience or that our perfection can come off to others as rude, insensitive, stuck up, and let's face it just complete a-holes. I think the one thing your post points out (even if it is a joke!) is how we sometimes do get too wrapped up in ourselves to realize that we are being perfectionists and that we all do make mistakes, take the wrong road and get lost, go down the dark path and become scared, its who we are as spiritual beings having a human experience.
P.s. I love the 'read in between the lines' of this post as it addresses many current issues with this new and upcoming generations. I know it was originally meant for as a joke but, honestly it really does address many current issues.
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I tell young people confidence is only for the great, mediocre minded folks should please choose the other lane.
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Yeah too much of self confidence makes you lack reflection, so you go on thinking your ways are the best. Hmmm! This is a nice post, wish people would up vote this asap cuz it's worth it.
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Well dang!... lol... I love it! :)
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Thank you :)
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Few hours ago you wrote on "how to get what you want" and now destroying your self confidence".These are writeups that can make one a better person.Thank you for the post,like @lance has said,you are indeed a cybertherapist @kaylinart
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Excellent post, sometimes one without knowing falls into these errors and it is good to read articles so to enter reason, thanks for your contribution :), although I am new here and my vote does not represent much thing I take the time to read it I will be following you and Voting your posts
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Good story you that you share
Please follow me @patricksanlin and upvote. Thanks
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Capitalizing the first letter after a comma, Is a mistake!
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I was reading this thinking gosh Im doing everything wrong xD
P.S: that new pic animation is too cute ^^
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Just Do you, that's what I always say. If people don't like you for who you are and what you love well then don't worry our of 8 billion people on this earth there are others who have the same interests as you.
Of course I don't believe in having values that hurt others but besides that just be yourself and don't care what others have to say.
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I would love to read more, great job i followed you and upvote so feel free to return the favor
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Thank you so much :)
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Dear kaylinart ! After I read Your post I made a conclusion that you are a very bad person 😅🦋
PS. This reply is not a joke
@kam.ila
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Inspiring
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Riders of the storm.
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Hahaha good joke! That was the definition of a toxic person.. upvoted!
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wow so nice dear good writing about life upvoted @kaylinart Visit my wall when you free thanks alot plz have a nice day
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Post is very nice and interested that is good ,@sharoon
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What if I don't have any self confidence to begin with?
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This isn't getting old lol, that picture of you is so sweet too
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Thanks! It's not me though LOL!
Hehehe I'm glad it's not getting old haha.
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Hello @kaylinart... I have this colleague at office. He is always doing stuff right at the very 1st instance.. He is the heart throb of the place. Whereas no one gives any importance to me😢.
I know I have made mistakes in the past by not studying during school days. I am a failure!
Just needed to get your approval on this great idea I had. Well, it's not that great also, I guess😕.
Just kidding... Peace ✌️
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LOL, There you go again! Read Read Read.
Blessings to you!!
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You had me for like a minute. That's kinda funny. Nice share, it woke my brain up after an afternoon nap. Lovely.
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@kaylinart Very Well Written. Great post. Very good life lessons. Thanks for sharing. :)
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Very Amusing.... I couldn't read it fast enough to get to the end to see where this was going... Glad to see . . . "This post is a joke!" - Thanks for posting. . .
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A very interesting post I've left my voice in your post that I love her I UPVOTE. And do not be shy to read a bit in my post and I hope you can do the same to me sir. Because your voice is so precious to me
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Oh good. It's a joke. Everyone calm down now. It's a joke.
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This is so true! People who are confident are jerks! I can't stand that they think that they're better than everyone else. I totally agree with living in the past. That's where all the action is and where you should be focused. JK lol great post and awesome humor! I look forward to the next one :)
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Inspiring post
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Very insightful! @kaylinart is not just a pretty face! I like your writing style. Have all have ego to be recognised, value, perceived as unique and outshine anyone else so that we feel like we can live up to ourselves. However, as humans - we are social beings, we need to get along, collaborate, cultivate harmoous relationship, we need each other to succeed - not to say self-confidence is a bad thing. Just not let the ego to get in other people's face till it becomes counterproductive for any collective goals.
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That's honestly one of the best things I've read in ages. Awesomo girl!
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Self confidence could lead to a successful job and family life, but at what cost? Isn't it better to meet the low, mediocre expectations of others! This one's a no-brainer!
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I love your blue eyes!
Upvoted and followed you!
Follow me @bankhai
Thank you!
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I like the reversed psychology, it shows us really how much we fear, but being afraid does not solve a thing. Just embrace life as much as we can, don't worry too much, do the best you can and accept life, just the way it is.
I wish you wonderful times.
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@kaylinart I'm confident you are too funny! 😉🤗😈
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Good post as always. Thanks for sharing.
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amazing post, you really help me
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I know this post is a joke but since I am dealing with my own stuff I really am not too concerned about how you are living your life. Not you personally! I am talking about anyone in general.
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hahah liking your sassy new writing style! :) Is it opposites day? :P
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Re-living the past is a major weight... wish there was an easy solution for it.
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Good post. What is the difference between self esteem and self confidence?
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Self-esteem is respect for yourself while self-confidence is like beliveing in urself. @mountrock
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ok thx
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great, I think everyone should love themselves and just learn to accept that they can change if they really want to.
Soy tu tio
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i agree with you totally because sometime you really need to act crepy when people around you are suceeding so that you can can alk your self why am i not doing well which will put you on your toes .but over confidence will make you think that you on top of every one which you stack you at one place
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Wow! Hahaha. Everybody's having their laugh of the day!
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nice i love you post <3
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@kaylinart Nice post, i like that it is a satire, and the animation of you is LIT!! Go girl
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I really needed this post today. I have a friend and she needs to read this, maybe that will help her. Thank you so much.
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I think the thing is to be realistically humble. We are all human. We have limitations and flaws. But all of us are created in the image of God and are special. We all don't have the same talents or looks but we have been blessed with something that we can grow in. And being the most talented or smartest person does not automatically mean that person will be successful. Sometimes the A student gets out into the real world and finds out how hard things really are. Sometimes the B student knows how to work and will start a business and find success that way.
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Very nice and on point! Love it!
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Hi @kaylinart !
nice post, i think perfection is some times not good because men stop learning and some times it become over confident and its bad for success.
i liked your post .
i've upvoted you.
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You are so refreshing. I can't get enough. Keep writing!!! I suppose there are some who might think your thoughts are real and not satire. Do I see a comedy tour in your future :-)
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Self Confidence is good, I mean how you're going to achieve anything without it? And live in the past part, you got it totally wrong, just forget what ever happened in the past, and look forward for your goals, that's the right way, thanks
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by reversing absolutely everything - you made a VERY strong point! brilliant piece.
Thought I would share mine with you too... not quite as humorous - but equally as real :)
https://steemit.com/life/@jaynie/you-in-the-sky-with-diamonds-rock-your-world-20
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Lol. You got me wondering.
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Great post @kaylinart Very informative
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This is a great reverse-psychology post! Love it! (^_^)v
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Sheesh.. I was reading through and getting REALLY mad lol - then saw that it was a joke and I was like "shew.. ok.. I was about to say..." lol.. It just resonated so negatively in every fiber of my body and I just was about to explode hahaha.. I'm glad you are joking - because it was all really bad bad bad advice - lol. I mean yes, there is a difference between being arrogant and confident and people should absolutely learn to walk that fine line - be confident and love yourself but not to the point where you negatively judge everyone else around and find them less significant or important as yourself. Truth is we all need to learn to love ourselves and each other more.. we are all one!
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Nice keep on it
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What if I use others who are doing "better" then me as "motivation" instead? Hmm.. I dunno, doesn't sound right...
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Hahahaha. I tink she was just joking @rawpride
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Great post as aways :)
Congratulations!
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This post received a 1.4% upvote from @randowhale thanks to @kaylinart! For more information, click here!
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