People often say to me; I wish I could do what you're doing. I hope I could have the same options as you do.
Sometimes I feel this way about other entrepreneurs. I think, "dang I wish I could do what they're doing."
The problem is, we are acting like they have some magical ability. That we cannot and do not possess. Sure, they may have skills and abilities that we don't have yet. But those things can be learned in time.
Figuring Out What They're Doing
Even though comparing ourselves to others is not always a good thing, it can sometimes make us realize what we want to live. In a world with so many options, it can be stressful trying to figure out what we want to do. By breaking down what the person we want to be, is doing. We can usually figure out what they are doing to get there. Recently I felt like this about someone I've been networking with; he's only 20 years old. He's making more than double of what I am. It seems as though, he can run his business with so much ease. I feel like I'm a stressed-out mess most the time. But when I started to break down what he was doing, I realize that it wasn't that crazy or that difficult. Once I began to do what he was doing, I know that I have the same results as he does. So instead of being upset, sad, or even jealous. I could have the same thing he does. It just takes a little bit of hard work and dedication.
We often feel somewhat robbed, when we see someone else doing what we want to do. But it seems like we don't have the opportunity to do so. But with the Internet, along with all the resources these days, we can mostly have what we want. We have to be willing to work for it. Next time you feel like you want to be somewhere else in life. Find someone who already is there. Talk to them, or learn as much as you can about them. Try and figure out what they're doing figure out their baby steps. And start heading in that direction.
You can get anywhere you want to in life. We often forget that.
Negativity always brings down all positive vibes I’ve noticed . It’s better to imagine the possible and work towards making it happen. If I supported my newborn from Steem when I jsut started last year, anything is possible
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It totally does! I'm so glad you were able to support your newborn! Steem is making such a large difference in everyone's lives, and i'm so grateful for that.
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You know what, before I immigrated from Czech Republic (europe) to US, I had been having these wishes or hopes a lot. But there was a point when I had enough just looking up to others. The breaking point for me was when I alone decided to take everything into my own hands, when I decided to leave my country and start a new life in the United States of America. Today thanks to my determination and hard work I have my own small business, I own house and I don’t ask these questions anymore, I don’t say anymore “I wish I had what you have”.
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As a father, I want my son to challenge assumptions and push boundaries more as he grows up. I think the reason a lot of people are afraid to take a different path is that the believe there is a correct path.
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@kaylinart I thought of you when I wrote this post. I would love for you to check it out and let me know your thoughts.
https://steemit.com/writing/@realestatecoach/energy-of-words
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It helps to have role models, people to push you in the right direction, general guidance while you learn and work toward what you want. I didn't have that when I was first in college so I didn't get any work during and I regretted it when I tried to get years down the track.
But live and learn and get things later than you wanted to in life, so long as you work hard and push to make things happen.
Keep working hard love and being inspirational to us all and going for what you want. Hehe :)
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I believe i can always do...what ever i want to do.
It drives me and i know i can achieve more and more.
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To reach your dreams you must have goals and ambition. What's a little hard work nothing is impossible it all depends on how motivated you are thanks for sharing.
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Hello @kaylinart,
Thanks for sharing such positive notes. Positive attitude towards everything certainly can change your life. we can face difficult situations with smily on our faces. with positive attitude I must agree we should stop saying it's impossible.
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You are awesome please upvote my last post i am fan of you support
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If people acted on their wish, they may get some place. I have the problems with having too many wishes and not acting on any of them, because I bog myself down. Fear also stops us from turning that wish into action.
People will say they want what that person has but do they really? Are they putting in the work to make that wish possible? No - they want what someone else has without putting in the time and effort, because we often don't see nor realize how hard it actually is and how long it may take to be successful in chosen area. Success is not a straight line up. It has dips that may crush one if one is not prepared for the setback.
Baby steps is really important. To many of us bite off way more than we can chew, throw down the thing we were working on and exclaim, "I knew I would fail! Fucking this shit! I'll find something else." And the cycle continues. I continuously make things seem way more difficult than I have to, because secretly, I want to fail. Who will admit this out loud?
Some thoughts I had when I read this post.
Peace
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Excellent post
What we feed our brain the same comes out.
If we keep feeding positives there will be positive outcome.
Replace ‘I can’t do this’ with why I can’t i do this. Just an example
Thanks for sharing
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If you look around you, how many people believed in the impossible and managed to reach it? We were talking about Steve Jobs or Bill Gates, but they are not the only ones.
Hypathy of Alexandria, Galilee, or Marie Curie were among the people who, for years, believed in them, in the unrealizable, and in something different.
Never forget that. Never stop dreaming because you think it's impossible. You have the strength, talent, and resources to make the reality you want come true.
Never let anyone tell you that you can not, because it's not true. Human beings are able to give the best of themselves and to achieve the impossible.
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Giving someone second chance is definitely not impossible for me! As long as people learn from their mistakes.
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;)
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Makes perfect sense. I have always loved the saying "you are the company you keep". To most people this means that if you hang out with liars and thieves than you are just like them. This can also be taken in a completely different way. If you surround yourself with successful people that are having more success than you, you will eventually get to where they are at.
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It is just as you say, people care too much for the achievements of others and do not take into account their own, are often negative to think that others are fortunate to achieve things that you have not done, when in fact you have not tried , it remains on our side to return those weaknesses in fortresses!
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I totally agree with you. Sometimes in life there comes a point where you think that you don't have anything or in particular that which your this friend or that person has and you believe you can't do it or have it which is a totally wrong approach.
Imagine if they had thought the same about everything then it would not have been possible to achieve that which they have right now.
Once a millionaire said to me
So now all the time I keep in my mind and try to improve myself with each and every day.
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Great post! There is a saying i remember, "surround yourself with people who have the same dream as you, who have accomplished what you want and more".
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Yes, it is only necessary to say what we really want, and then go with it, but discipline is needed to achieve it.
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good message of life, the key to success: every day is authentic and have a heart to your projects.
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I really don't like when people say so. "I wish I could?". Well, why don't you try, and if fail, don't try again? It's so easy to complain, but at the same time - it can be so interesting to even try! I had a friend who always answered on questions like "Can you do ......?" "I don't know yet, I have to try". And he actually did, and in most cases succeeded.
I also love the phrase "Everybody knew that it was impossible. But one dummy didn't - that's why he succeeded" (general sense). I believe it's Einstein.
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positive thinking affects life..thanks for the motivation dear @kaylinart
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Dear @kaylinart
You have a new follower > Thanks
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Always you come up with great motivation blog posts @kaylinart,you are really great inspiration for me,hope i can see you one day.
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