Listen Before You Speak

in life •  3 years ago 

In business settings, it is important to listen carefully before you speak. You may want to write down the information that is most important to you or jot down key points you would like to recall. This way, you will have a record of the conversation, which you can then analyze. You may also want to repeat key information, ask questions, and even write a synopsis memo to review what you have heard. However, you should always make sure to control your emotions and avoid interrupting others.


Be a good listener
A great listener gives someone the space to finish their thought. By interrupting, you show the speaker that you haven't heard them and don't care what they're saying. A good listener eavesdrops on conversations without interrupting, creating a safe environment for the speaker to continue talking. Listeners are active in the conversation, making thoughtful observations and giving constructive feedback. To be an effective listener, you must be able to follow the instructions of the other person.

Prepare questions before speaking
Before you give a speech, you should prepare questions for the audience. The best way to do this is to practice answering questions to your audience. Practice answering questions before giving a speech, so you will be confident and focused when the time comes. You can always ask a question if you feel it will help you answer a question better. One of the most common questions that people ask during speeches is "Who do I vote for?"

Don't interrupt others
If you're in a conversation, one of the most detrimental tics you can have is the habit of interrupting others. While it may be in your best interest to hear what the other person is saying, interrupting them often sends the message that they're not important. Even if you're not attempting to disrupt the speaker, this habit can send the wrong message. Here are some tips to help you avoid interrupting others during a conversation.


Control your emotions
If you have trouble controlling your emotions when speaking, there are a few things you can do to make it easier. Learning the normal feelings people have during unusual situations will help you manage your feelings better. Moreover, learning self-regulation techniques will help you relax, feel good, and control your feelings. Read on to discover some of these techniques. You'll find these techniques useful! You'll be amazed at how simple they are!

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Yes absolutely right, Listning plays an imp part in human life. If you want to be a good speaker then you must be a good listner first.