1.Change the way you converse with yourself.
Settle on a choice not to put yourself around saying "I can't" or "I'm sufficiently bad" or "I don't merit it," and so forth. When you find yourself saying this, supplant it with a positive. You might need to rehash to yourself, "I can; I am; and I will!"
Allow yourself to know how appreciative you are for as of now having what you need, doing what you need, and being the way you need.
2.Imagine your life the way you need it. Make capable and convincing pictures of yourself doing the things you need to do and the person you imagine yourself as being.
3.Change your response
-An outcome is determined by your response towards the event.
So if your life sucks right now,instead of whining,you will take proper action.
Taking the first step is lot harder than carrying on.
Never too late to start.Always late to wait.