Life Hack - How To Make Your Marriage / Relationship Work - Love Hacks That Really Do Work !

in life •  8 years ago  (edited)

Friends and family often ask how is it that my wife and I have such a happy marriage, despite the problems we have that life brings around, truth is my beautiful wife and I have not had an argument or a couples war in five years, so I have decided to share some simple marriage hacks here with you on steemit.

Communication
One of the best hacks I can offer any couple married or not is communication, make an effort to take 30 minutes out of your day to be together alone without distractions sit holding your partners hand and just talk about whatever comes to mind, it could be about your day or something that is on your mind whatever (men keep it in your pants its not a quickie opportunity lol)

Compliment Your Partner
Every day find one thing to compliment your partner on, yes I know marriage is a different animal and she can really get her drag queen on while he moves into hobo mode but again make the effort and find something to compliment your partner on, and there is always-always something you can find.

Say I Love You
This is an element I really feel is part of the glue in my marriage, my wife and I tell each other at least 20 times a day that we love each other, some may feel its a bit much but hey do not knock it until you have tried it, when last have you told your partner that you love them ?

Serve Each Other
Despite common belief neither person is superior to the other in marriage or in any relationship, yes woman should be more submissive than her male counterpart but this does not mean she is anything less than he is, therefore find ways in which you can serve one another, it can be simply by making your partner coffee in bed every morning there are many ways you can accomplish this task.

Romantic Surprises
When last have you done something romantic for your partner ? this is one of the most fulfilling things to do in a relationship, Guys when last have you last made her breakfast in bed, or picked some flowers from the garden for her ?(no matter how ugly they are) Ladies, when last have you surprised him with some sexy lingerie? (ok you may feel your like an elephant in a bikini but trust me to him you are the sexiest thing ever).

There are so many more hacks I can give you here and perhaps I will write a follow-up to this post, the most important marriage / relationship life hack I can give you though is that it all comes down to how you make the other person in your life feel, believe they are and treat them as your treasure and you will never look back.

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Well said mrgrey. Chains do not hold a marraige together. It is threads...hundreds of tiny threads which sew two people together. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

Thank you duppop :) that is lovely

beautiful!

I agree with you @mrgrey, i can testify to that. Communication is the no. 1, with it a couple can share a lot of things. Yes, couple might be working everyday and there are cases that only the husband is working and usually upon arriving home they are already tired and exhausted and just go directly to bed. This common to many couple thats why getting divorce becomes common for some. If a couple cares in building a happy family, you have to communicate.

I agree with you 100% juvy

Is 1000 steem power the official bar for dolphin-status?

Hi @hunterisgreat I did read somewhere here on steemit that it is yes so its what I currently go by

I also go for steempower :)

Another awesome post @mrgrey thank you

Thank you crazycow :)

This is great advice. Well written, simple and to the point. Followed:)

Thank you very much for your kind words @thecryptofiend really appreciate it.

Thank you for this mrgrey, I have been having a hard time in my relationship so I am definately going to try this.

Only a pleasure, give it a good go it will help you, I have no doubt.

Great tips :) )i hope everyone follows :)

Thank you @allasyummyfood :)

Beautiful advice !

Thank you @mammasitta :)

great article mrgrey keep up the good work

Thank you !