How to Be More Mindful and Self-aware

in life •  4 years ago 

Being aware of your thoughts and actions on a daily basis will help you stay positive. However, it is not always easy to keep this in mind because we all allow things that don't belong to us to interfere with our lives. If you are aware of how you react to situations, then you will know when something doesn't belong to you are allowing yourself to be used by others. This, in turn, can have a negative effect. So, how can you be mindful of what you are doing?


One of the easiest ways to achieve self-awareness is to keep a journal. Write down your thoughts, feelings and emotions as they occur. You can also make lists of positive and negative thoughts and feelings so that you can evaluate your own behaviour and thoughts. By keeping an insight into what you are feeling and thinking, you will be able to see your behaviour and thoughts objectively.

Some people find it helpful to use affirmations. It is possible to repeat positive statements over again, until they become a regular part of your daily routine. Think positively, instead of thinking negatively. Remind yourself of your dreams and goals. These can be inspiring, no matter what they may appear like.

To remain in a positive state, we should take time out from our daily routines and treat ourselves to some refreshing exercise or trip to the spa. Exercise releases endorphins in the brain, which gives you a natural high. It also helps you to eliminate stress, which lowers self-esteem and reduces self-confidence. Aromatherapy can also help you to stay in a positive state.

Have a nice relaxing bath. Sit in a hot bath where you feel better. Alternatively, have someone else do this for you. Massage your body until you feel better. This helps to relax the muscles, and the endorphins kick in.

When you feel bad, it is important not to run down to the dark corner of the house and hide. Instead, turn to your favorite book, newspaper, or television. Turn on some of your favourite positive messages. Continue doing this for as long as it takes you to feel better. Soon you will feel better, and these negative thoughts will begin to fade.

If there are negative thoughts that keep ringing in your head, turn to a positive resource for information or help. You can read books about overcoming negative thoughts or attend seminars that discuss overcoming anxiety. Or, you could even attend a dance class, a singing class, or a gardening class, and spend time learning how to release negative energy through movement.

Be more mindful and self-aware. The more aware and self-aware you are of what's going on in your own life, the better you will feel. You will also discover that you have more control over things in your life, because you are more in control of them. This should empower you to make better decisions and to deal with problems in your life in a more effective way. If you don't feel good about yourself, and you don't like the way that you look, you should look into an exercise program that will help you to rid yourself of unwanted body fats and tighten up your skin, and appearance.

A great way to increase self-awareness is through meditation. Meditation helps you to become aware of your thought patterns, and the emotions that you are feeling. By meditating regularly, you will begin to discover how to better manage your emotions, which in turn will make you feel better about yourself. When you learn how to better manage your anger, frustration, stress, anxiety, or other negative feelings, you will find that these feelings will be away, and you will be able to live a happier and fuller life.

Another way to increase awareness is through positive thinking. This can be difficult at first, but if we follow a few simple steps, it is quite possible to create a better outlook on life through positive thinking. For instance, if you find that you have been carrying bad thoughts with you for some time, and you have never really tried to let them go, then it may be time for you to do just that. Try changing the way that you think about yourself and others, and see how your opinion changes for the better. If you start to believe that you are capable of achieving great things, and that you have great potential, then you will be able to attract all of the positive things that you desire.


You do not have to go on an exercise regimen or spend countless hours in meditation. In fact, one of the best ways that you can begin to feel better is simply to pay attention to the way that you are feeling. If you allow yourself to be more self-aware and realize the good that you have going on in your life, then you will be able to feel better about yourself, and you will attract more good to yourself, which will make you feel better about life in general.

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