Reality of a New Relationship

In the starting of relationship everything feel
new and wonderful. Both partners are excited for each other. There are loads of things to know
about each other like their favorite color, food,
game, movies, songs and so on. These things usually happened when your relation is new.
You feel the butterflies in your stomach when your partner is around. You try to do every possible things just to make your partner feel special.
But What happened when your relationship becomes old? Does it feel the same? So its answer is exactly NO.
It's not that you don't love her/him. Yes you still love her/him but The reason is that you stopped doing all the little things which you do earlier because you don't feel necessary to do it except occasionally like
birthday, anniversary. Your slow replies make her/him feel that you don't want to talk or getting bored from her/him talks. Do you remember once your replies were so fast to every text from your partner. You used to
inform your partner that you reached at Home/University /Office safely but now you don't care
and get irritated to inform her/him. You don't even send her/him a signal text and she/he gets worried all the day for you. You stopped showing love to her/him. She/He is waiting all the day to hear those 3 magical words from you
i.e. I Missed You.
She/He wish you a best of luck for your exam in
morning but after getting free from examination hall, you don't even feel necessary to tell her/him
about your paper it was good or not? And she/he is waiting for your text.You used to wished her/him Best of luck for every exams but now you
don't feel necessary to give her/him best wishes for
her/his exam.
You used to talk all the time now you don't have
time to wish her/him good night and good morning. She/He doesn't want your Whole day but she/he
hates ending day without talking to you. Specially
make time for her/him in night so she/he can peacefully sleep.
We don't need any occasion to show our love to
our partner then why these difference are? She/He was the one you wanted her/him as a your
partner and now she/he is yours, she/he loves your from core of her/his heart, cares like a mother/father, understand like a bestfriend but now you ignore
her/him because you are bored from her/him.
In many cases essence of relationship fades away
with time and at the end your partner get tired from one sided effort in relationship which results in Move On.
Yes if you take her/him for granted or ignore her/him,
leave such kind of relationship.
Girls/Boys don't want you to bring stars and moon for
her/him. She/He needs your time, love and loyalty. The girl/boy happiness lies in the small things. She/He
don't need your money or expensive gifts from you on special occasions. She/he just need your hold that never leave her/his hand. 😊