Thoughts in my head # 41 or about turning points in our life...

The turning points - how many of them were in my life ? And how to choose the most significant points at a very young age?
When I was 10-12 years old, I was presented with a photo album for the New Year, and everything is basically OK if it were not added to the phrase: "Well, you're already grown up!" That's when I became an adult... Or again: also at about the same age: I found a newborn half-dead kitten, and I decided to save it: I warmed it in my hands, and fed it using a pipette (I've tried) and the kitten died. I cried much. And it was not even about the kitten. I clearly understood that very little depends on us, and I was hurt by this helplessness, and from the fact that I had to accept it, watching the slow death of this little creature.
Another moment, and also 10 years old: some people tried to convict me that I broke one thing, but I did not do it. I stayed on my truth very long time, explained, but nobody believed me, convincing me that it's better to confess ... and I gave up - I lied, saying that it was my fault. And everyone immediately felt better ... but not me ... But I realized that no truth will not help if a person knowsingly believes in a lie.
If you think carefully, then all these moments are crucial. Yes, and they broke my perception in different ways...