Hey dearest Mr/Mrs Irreplaceable, listen to this;
For the fact that people want you to be a part of their lives, business or team does not mean You Are Irreplaceable!
Stop feeling too important to someone who wants you. If they make a lot of sacrifices to keep you, don't take it for granted. Don't feel they are doing it because they can't replace you. No one on this earth is irreplaceable! If you keep frustrating their efforts to be happy with you, one day you'll be shocked to discover that you have lost all relevance before them.
I once had a boyfriend who thought he was irreplaceable in my life. He felt I was not his class and he was doing me a favour to have him. I sacrificed so much to put up with his attitude and save the relationship. But after a while, I realized I deserved better, so I dumped his silly ass and moved on. At first, he could not believe I would ever think about leaving him. But when it dawned on him I was gone for good, he started begging and till date, he is still begging. Anyways, I don't have feelings for him anymore and I don't think I'll ever have one for him again.
If you find a good spouse, business partner, friend, work place or position, do not take for granted anything being offered to you or sacrifice for your sake. Stop feeling too important to people who want you close to them. Stop making being with you a difficult task for other people because someday, they will get tired of whatever sacrifice they are making to keep you and they will let go. But guess what? When that happens, you might be the one with the biggest regrets.
People may be tolerating you now, but do not think it will last forever. One day, they will realize they deserve better and they will Replace You.
Save your job, save your marriage, save your friendship, save you position, save your relationship with humility, meekness and show of appreciation.
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This is very very true. I sometimes feel bad and even angry whenever my best friend feels that way. I will sure communicate this to her.
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I hope it helps. Thank you for visiting my blog @essiential.
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I am to be thankful here because I just stumbled upon your blog for the first time and I have benefited greatly already. Happy to meet an industrious Nigerian like you.
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Lol! Thank you.
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You're most welcome! 🙌
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You are right on this ma. Every one can be replaced that is why you see someone that died, give the family a week or so, they will gradually forget such even happend @ogoowinner
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A loved one can never be replaced by the family. It is not the same. I lost my elder brother 23 years ago but still nothing can ever replace him.
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Let not argue much bro, it is so painful to lost someone but you got move on and moving on only has single handedly got him replaced.
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This is really an eye opener.
Thanks for your contribution here @tfame3865.
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You are soo right dear, whatever you think you have or can do, there are millions of people that can do it well. The world is a competitive place.
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So true! I wonder what makes anyone feel irreplaceable in a world where we have over four billion people.
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singing
I can have another of you in a minute
As a matter of fact he'll be here in a minute so don't you ever for a second get to thinking, you're irreplaceable
save your employees
Some bosses think they are doing their staff a favor by employing us. I mean, who do they think they are, like we can't get something better else where?
One day he'll come to the office and realise all his employees are gone.
I already left tho....
I replaced him with a better boss
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Oh! Some bosses are like that. They think we can't find a better job. But the funny part is, he may never find a better staff than you.
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Yeah
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This is absolute truth. Nobody is irreplaceable. Just like you make people know they are very replaceable we should also know that we are not irreplaceable. Hence we should try to value whoever we are with or whatever position we find ourselves and use it well because like magic, you can be kicked out and another brought in.
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Yeah! No one is irreplaceable. I think I stated that in the post. Thanks for your comment here @zizymena.
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Yes you did. It's so sad when your boss makes you feel like you are irreplaceable and then just because of a little misunderstanding replaces you without a second thought after overworking you. That one is painful. Being replaced when you deserve that spot can hurt that's why now I see it like a vapour this minute is and next minute is no more.
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People change at anytime and for no justifiable reason. We must be ready for anything when working with other humans. Read my previous post on that topic here (https://steemit.com/motivation/@ogoowinner/life-does-go-give-you-these-three-things-on-a-platter-of-gold)
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Well in life people tend to make that mistake, because they feel they have something that no one else can ever have, as a result of that, they feel indispensable and irreplaceable,
good one on this one tonight. I enjoyed
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I'm glad you enjoyed it.
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I agree with you my friend @ogoowinner!! well said. world population: 7,810,423,756. Just in case someone's acting irreplaceable.
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Thanks for the figures. We really need to start being humble. Thank you for reading and commenting @giftedwords.
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you're welcome. humility is the key to be successful in all aspect of life. you are one of the best 9ja blogger i have met on steemit, keep it up.
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Hmmmm! I'm blushing! 😂
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It is the truth dear. are you on discord.
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You are very correct we are actually irreplaceable but inferiority complex sometimes makes some people very others are better than them.
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Thank you for reading.
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Am speechless. I wish i could tag someone to come and read this piece, but unfortunately she's not on steemit. But no problem. I'll resteem and copy the links to her.
You have your way with words Ogoo. Keep it up!
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Thank you so much for this wonderful motivational speech ,..... i used to be in an emotional abusive relationship, i though i could not move on or find some one else, i keep thinking he will change, any way he didn't change, i walked away but i almost damaged my self in the process, because i thought i was never gonna be good enough for any on, now i know better,,
i realize now , i am irreplaceable
i realize, i am a rare gem
Today i am much happy.
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I really love your attitude young lady you should go to schools and teach other young women this self esteem. I mean you are giving really good lessons to all your followers. Not taking people for granted and not letting yourself be taken for granted. Great lessons. They say you don't know what you got until its gone and that is so true.
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No one is irriplaceable indeed. Friendship, workship,partnership,relationship, whatever-ship we might find ourselves,we should recognize; it is value for value.
But sometimes, the hole they created in us cannot be filled by another person. But that doesnt make them irriplaceable.
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The truth remains we are not irreplaceable , you'd even get shocked on how quickly you were replaced. There are people that are yet to admit this.
And thank you very much for accepting the IV, I am honoured.
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Everyone is unique no one can ever be replaceable : )
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@ogoowinner
an interesting story. reminds me of someone. I am sad.
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What is important for me is if I will going to be missed if I was lost by someone. ha ha @ogoowinner
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The only time your presence would be valued in a person's life is when you add value to that person. If you don't add value to a person life, you would be disposed like disposable cups NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE.
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