Hello, my dear steemit friends :)
Summer is here, and I love it because everyone gets so relaxed during the summer. You can feel ease in the air. I call it summer ease.
We had a little Solstice party a few days ago in honor of the summer. Few very close friends came, and we had good food, drinks, laughs and deep conversations. It was a lot of fun, and we enjoyed it very much.
At that party, I found out that one of our friends is in love with someone. That someone doesn't know that yet. So, I became very curious about, how to tell that person what he feels, and how not to be afraid of rejection.
I talked about it with my Inner Being and received an interesting answer.
Here it is...
Me:
What to do, if you are in love with someone and you don’t know if he is in love with you too? If you are too afraid to tell him that because you are afraid to lose the friendship that you have with him. And too afraid to ask what he feels about you because you are afraid the bad news of rejection?
Inner Being:
What about if you know that his love for you is not important for you to be happy? What if you would know that you can feel love no matter what his answer to your question is? What if you would feel loved no matter what? Would you still be afraid of his answer?
You actually have nothing to lose. Because love doesn’t come from another person. The feeling of love is an indicator of your alignment with your source (with your Inner Being).
We would never depend on someone else's love. We would take responsibility for our feelings. That would be our first priority: alignment with our Inner Being and feeling love.
If you two have a good time together, just spend more of good time together. Have fun and do the things you like to do, and see where it goes.
You have to practice the alignment with your Inner Being if you want to have a good relationship, anyway. Even if he loves you too, you can not depend on that. You can only depend on your relationship with yourself (with your Inner Being). If you have a good relationship with yourself, then you have nothing to be afraid of. You will always have love with you, no matter what happens around you.
Photography by Sabina Susnik
That was a conversation with my Inner Being. When I have a question, I always ask my Inner Being about it, and then I listen for the answer that comes in form of intuition. I always get answers. It is a fun and easy way to find a solution. Everyone can get answers that way. Everyone has the ability, to speak with their Inner Being.