HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU part1

in life •  7 years ago 

Offcourse you can make someone do what you want them to do by pointing a gun at them until you remove the gun from them and they go back to doing what they want to do.
But why go through these huge stress in the first place, when there is a simple way to make anyone do anything. I know you must be think how, how to i make someone do anything I want them to do. To make them do what you want them to do is quite simple, ITS SIMPLY BY MAKING THEM WANT TO DO IT.
As human we all will crave for one or more of the following:
⦁ Health and how to live longer
⦁ sleep
⦁ sexual gratification
⦁ their children's well being
⦁ money
⦁ food
⦁ life after death
⦁ Desire to be important,
The desire to be important is almost as imperious as the longing and shelter. This desire is the major distinguishing fact between human being and animal.
One major way to arouse these desire in others is through hearty and sincere appreciation of these other people. Am not talking about flattery or a necessary hello, but a sincere appreciation of what they have done and of what you intend them to do in the future.
Almost all day we spend our time thinking about ourselves, we almost never think about other people. when we change our line of thought and start spending the time to see the good side of people, then and only then we will have a different perspective about appreciating people even when they have not yet done anything for us.
Next time you want to get people to do what you want, don't start with pouring it on their faces, instead be lavish in your appreciation, start with a sincere smile and words of comfort.
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