If it's hard to forgive an abuser

in life •  7 years ago 

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To conceal evil, insult to another person is a great sin. It suffices to recall the words from the Bible, where it is said that God will forgive us our sins only if we also let offense to other people.

This feeling is terrible because it harms not only the person whom we can not forgive, but also ourselves. It leaves a deep wound behind itself.

When a person is gnawing insult, he should remember how imperfect he is, how many sins he committed. And then pray. The stronger the idea that it is impossible to forgive, the more zealously one must pray.

If a person feels that it is too difficult for him to forgive an offender, you need to imagine that this is a test that was prepared by God for him. In fact, so it is. It is necessary to pass this test with dignity. As soon as it is left behind, there will be a feeling of lightness, purity and pacification.

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You have to forgive everyone but it would be crazy to resume a relationship with an abuser. God doesn't require that. There is divorce.

Totally agreed!

i must say............forgiveness is the giving, and so the receiving, of life.........that for sure..

Nice post.
Its really good to forgive

Yeah insulting is a sin ans abusing is bigger than that. Person forgets the 99 good deeds of you and only remember 1 bad one out of 100. Thats people nature. They dont think about others feelings. They just wanna shout and yell and show their dominancy. But they forget that earth is round. What goes around comes around.

We need to forgive our offenders because in one or two ways we offend someone else

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Without hypocrisy as human as we are, we are always confronted with this kind of struggle but always remember the cross where Jesus pardoned us by bearing the suffering we suppossedly deserve. Only being healed by the Lord can forgiveness be true and absolute.

Choose to see the blessingS rather than the aches. Then without noticing, it'll already change your mood putting a smile on ones face and igniting hope in your spirit.

Forgiveness is the best human policy! When you forgive someone atleast you can feel the peace and a kind of sanctity in your heart

Interesting Fact:
Most common domestic abusers are women.
Most common victims are children.

Not what you guys were expecting, huh?

true im not so religious but this kinda stuff gets me and you got a nice upvote so im here.if i insult the holy spirit god wont forgive me .

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Wonderful post. Nice.

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I agree with you @pioner888777!! At times it is hard to forgive someone especially anytime we remember the damage they cost us we cry. To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you.


Blessings.

No es fácil perdonar y mucho menos a un abusador, tenemos que entender que hay un Dios que sana esas heridas y nos permite humillarnos para poder tener paz interna y permanecer en comunión con nuestro padre Celestial.

@pioner888777 forgiveness should be learnt from God. He is our perfect example.

The Bible says we should forgive each other and there should also be a limit to your relationship with the offender. It shouldn't be as before.