One way to deal with narcissists is to recognize the signs of self-centeredness in yourself and others. While self-centeredness is usually a positive characteristic, it can become problematic when it becomes single-minded and fails to consider other perspectives. When a person is overly self-centered, he or she monopolizes the conversation and may not acknowledge the needs of others.
Self-centered people love attention. Avoid eye contact with such people, and practice defensive driving techniques. You can also deflect the narcissist's attention by asking a direct question about their point of view. Validating a point of view can also stroke the ego of a self-centered person, which can lead to an opportunity to offer your own viewpoint.
Narcissists do not show sympathy for other people and demonstrate little or no concern for others. If someone appears to care for you, they will be less likely to exhibit self-centered behaviors. However, if you can step outside of your own world and listen to what others are saying, you can help the person in your life feel better.
Remember to avoid blaming the other person for your mistakes. Narcissists often have very difficult time accepting blame. They may even get angry if you criticize them for things that are not their fault. Instead of blaming someone else, focus on your own goals, gifts, and dreams. When you are speaking with a narcissist, always remember to use gentleness, as you do not want the other person to take it personally and become defensive.
Narcissists are typically obsessed with themselves and want to gain power or status. They believe that they are too good to be ordinary, and wish to associate with people with a higher status. Often, a narcissist will only associate with people who share their values.
Self-centered people are often not a manipulative individual. They may be devoted to their career or put their lifestyle first. However, they are often self-absorbed and love to hear themselves talk. They may be manipulative, or they may just be too busy to listen to anyone else.
Narcissism is an often-overlooked symptom of self-centeredness. Although they may be able to empathize with others, narcissists are often insecure and need affirmation to maintain emotional equilibrium. They do not understand their inherent worth, and constantly seek affirmation from others.
It can be difficult to end an abusive relationship with a narcissist. Narcissists are charismatic and charming, and can manipulate their victims to their benefit. When narcissists fail to receive praise, they blame other people and society.