If Your Life Is Not Aligned With Your Character, It's Been Hard

in life •  4 years ago 

A life that is not aligned with your character can only be considered a chaotic existence. There will always be challenges along the way. Yet, it's how we deal with them that matters. And you can certainly get your life back on track, when you start living according to your true values. The following are tips to help you achieve that very thing.


Living life according to your character is all about prioritizing your goals. When you know what you want out of life, and you have clear character-based goals in mind, there will be less room for discrepancy and chaos. When your life is not aligned with your character, there will be interference with your personal and professional lives. It will be difficult to balance work and home, family and leisure.

To make your life not aligned with your character, you must first ensure that the character is a good one. This means that your character is what you deserve and that you are grateful for it. You can ask yourself questions like: Am I really grateful for my good character? Do I love the character? Would I be happy if I were to change it?

If your life is not aligned with your character, then you are allowing chaos to creep into your life. Chaos results when there is a disparity between what you want from your life and the reality that presents itself. And when you realize that there is no such thing as a free lunch, you're better off prioritizing your character than your free lunch.

When your character is true, the Universe will treat you accordingly. It will bring you to your best life. Your character is the foundation upon which your life is built. It is the ground on which your character is laid. So when your life is not aligned with your character, you may find yourself wishing for something else and living a miserable existence.

In order to have a happy life, you need to live a true character. Otherwise, you are just chasing false happiness. When you are not happy, you are not in touch with your true character. So, you are never truly happy.

Your character - is what defines you. It is the part of you that makes you who you are. It is the source of your strength and your power. When you have a life that is not in alignment with your character - if you are weak, confused, uneducated, a loser, unambitious, mean spirited, etc., then those are the things that define you in the outside world and not the character - the core foundation that makes up your true being.

You cannot hope to have a happy and successful life if you are not happy and successful in the core of your being. If you are not in touch with and aligned with your true character, you are bound to be miserable. You can learn what makes you tick and then build a life and character that are mutually complementary. Once you have learned these two things, you will live a happy, truly fulfilling life.

In order for us to move forward and build a meaningful and prosperous life, we first need to discover our true character. A life coach can help you uncover this essential aspect of yourself. Once you know your true character, it becomes easier to find solutions to your problems. A life coach can show you how to build a strong character and how to balance your life so that you are always in harmony with who you are and with other people.

A life coach can teach you how to understand your true nature. The true nature of our lives is the sum of all our experiences. A life coach can teach you how to recognize your life's lessons and take valuable lessons from them, which can then be used to help you develop the inner strength and character that you need to transform your life into the fulfilled, successful, and happy one that you have always wanted it to be.


A life coach can help you realize the importance of working on yourself every day. Coaching can help you to set realistic goals and to work on yourself every day. A life coach can teach you how to separate your self-talk from your character talk. Self-talk, which is commonly considered "character speak," can often cloud your judgment, which can make you act in ways that you would not normally act. A life coach can help you to become aware of and to eliminate the negative impact of character-talk.

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I have often described "God" as a river. It is less an old-guy with a white beard and more a force that pushes us to a destination which we cannot see and may never attain. In dealing with this river, one can fight against it, trying to go against the flow or one can go with the flow. Sometimes this river branches leading to two different streams one slow and safe and the other full of falls and undercurrents which can wreck your journey. Oftentimes people will be influenced by others or in some cases be wrecked by bad personal choices and decisions.

Hopefully, as a life coach, you can guide people to the safe shoals of their destinations.