ROLES AND WEDDING RELATIONS

in life •  7 years ago 

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Good morning my steemians @rezarizkii again want to share a role in life. As I shared yesterday the formal role of the family. But today I will share the other role of "marriage roles and relationships." For all those who do not know this role is very useful for you to read this post.Without having to prolong the story directly we discuss this role.



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Nye and Gecas (1976) identify eight basic roles that make up the social position of husband-father and wife-mother; provider, housekeeper, childcare, recreational, friendship (maintaining relationships with the fathers and mother's family), therapeutic (meeting the effective needs of the spouse [or adult intimate partner]), sexual role, In this scheme the friendship role has been entered into recreational and therapeutic roles.

Many people fail to separate the role of the parent from the role of marriage, but in reality the two roles are somewhat different, and the role of marriage should not be reduced because of excessive involvement in the role of the parent.

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The role of marriage focuses on husband-wife interaction, while the parent's role focuses on older child-child interactions and old parental responsibilities. Despite this separation, marriage performance will certainly affect the role of parents and vice versa.

Minuchin (1974) emphasized the importance of maintaining a strong marriage relationship. Children can in particular affect marital relations, which reduces the proximity of the relationship between the parents, maintains a satisfactory parenting relationship identified as one of the important family developmental tasks along the way over the life cycle.

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In the preceding discussion of family development in Chapter 5, the stress that children give to marital relationships provides sufficient evidence. In addition to studying the demostration of vast marriage diversity, efforts have also been made to classify the type of dyadic relationships (two people).

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first described by Bateson (1958) and later by Watzlawick and colleagues (1967), two basic types of relationships are found in dyadic relationships. These relationships are called complementary and symmetrical relationships, with parallel relationships being a combination of both.

Diad in complementary relationships exhibits opposite behavior. One person as the dominant personality who leads and makes decisions, while the other couple are subordinate followers) a unique "one above one below" position.

A strong element of dependence exists between adult couples who have a complementary relationship. A positive element in this type of relationship is that it allows a person to give and the other receives.

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The danger lies in the tendency to be very rigid, which suppresses the growth of both people. It is important for both partners in the complementary relationship to play their "appropriate" role.

If both partners do not continue to perform their respective functions, the relationship will end, with each feeling rejected by the other.



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