Why Do We Treat Physical Illness With Care and Compassion but Ignore or Belittle Depression and Other Mental Health Symptoms?

in life •  7 years ago 

The Truth About Depression

There isn't a magic cure for a broken leg, but there is available treatment that can have your leg healed and working like it did before the break. The same can be said for depression and other mental illnesses. While it has become more socially acceptable over the years through education and awareness, just because more people seem to know about depression and what it is, I still am not seeing that there is more understanding. If anything, it feels as though there is more acceptance of it, which is mainly leading to people on a social level become more expectant that others will have depression. '

For those of you that aren't brushed up on what depression is and isn't, take a look.


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How Many Misconceptions Did You Believe?

Once upon a time, it was considered a weakness if you didn't or couldn't pull yourself up and out of a depression. Now, for depression that has pervasive symptoms, lasting over 2 weeks, we call it major depressive disorder. If you have been feeling this way then you would likely qualfy for assistance from counseling (which couldn't we all benefit from this anyway) and more than likely medication.

Do I Have to Take Medication for Depression?

Part of taking Depression seriously is treating it appropriately. Much like we need to take antibiotics at times when we are sick, there is a need to take anti-depressants or mood stabilizers for many when they have depression. Taking these kinds of medications irregularly is an easy thing to do. However, think of it this way... if you don't take your stuff regularly then you aren't reacting to your depression in a manner that says that you are taking it seriously. That being said, this is not a medical blog and I am not a doctor. My experience is in the mental health industry and I provide coaching to a wide range of individuals. I also have been going thruogh perhaps one of the biggest depressive episodes. I am learnig a lot and I will say, no I don't take medication anymore.

It isn't so much that you need to take medication or not. You do need to get help once the depression gets beyond your capabilities. Therapists and coaches, trained in psychology (and sometimes religous studies as well) can help a lot by simply teaching you coping skills such as scheduling, exercice routines, deception of the self, perspective shifting and more.

Yes, Deception is a Coping Skill

Well, it can be. Deceiving and lying is never good but sometimes not indulging the self is required. Before you get all fired up to believe the worst about something listen to the voice of where this is coming from. Many people find that they can talk positive in their mind and eventually they believe it. It requires persistence though

Deceiving oneself is still not going to start solving the problem ofus all taking it seriously though. It almost seems that all of the solutions we have currently to date stem from that original form when it was not polite to feel things. It almost seems like an endless cycle of up and down - and we're trapped in it.

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So, What Do You Do?

I would like to hear how you have changed your feelings about mental health, or rather, if you have. I am noticing a trending difference between my generation (I like to think I am a gen X er - but i am like 7 months off technically) and the millennial and then the ones post-millennial. I think that the best thing we can do is to stop skirting the topic, talk about it and keep that conversation going.

If you have a story about mental illness or depression, I would love to hear it!

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As an OT I go down the route of holistic therapy and activity and coping strategies. As well as having someone to talk too. I like this post an yes its a huge issue and growing. Largely in my opinion to the increased amount of stress and lack of leisure time people make for themselves. Also the lack of outdoor time or time spent in nature is a huge problem.

What sickens me is the shocking lack of any of this in the UK as it is being cut left right and center. My ex who was is depressed was told she would have to wait 36 months to see anyone unless she was suicidal. Fumming, says it all about the regime we have dictating over us !

I was told that I couldn't be helped unless I as suicidal in as well - and then when I went to therapy they said I was too aware of my emotions. I don't know what that really even means. I get that hyper awareness can make one over analytical and I do have a background with mental health but still. There are days like, I need a little help. Oh well, I guess it is good I am working on it. That is the best we can do~!

Sounds like you are her level but she won’t listen to anyone and thats why we are no longer. I hope she finds a solution, shes resilient so i’m sure she will. I still send her reiki energy to keep her strong :)

I have 2 classes from my sociology degree, so I would have my BA there. I have also been in counseling a large part of my life and am a certified priestess... so I tend to do life coaching and such. I read tarot as well. I am aware of my feelings but sometimes I don't have the coping skills to overcome, which is why I liked attending therapy. Years ago when I didn't have the knowlege of what was my problem or a specific diagnosis it was harder. But, with people leaving you and missing out on opportunities because of emotions or fear (anxiety sucks!) I have learned I have better checks and balances now and try to surround myself with people that I trust the judement of. Maybe when I can afford it, I would go back to therapy. I think there is a place for it, for sure. Not listening is tough. We all can be like that, but I have (in my experience) noticed those with bipolar, especially manic phases, as well as those with personality disorders that often include narcissism in their clusters, tend to be less practiced at taking direction from others.

Nicely put you sound like your a good energy :). She does tarot too. She ended it said she need to live alone and could not share her space with my energy. Yet she said she still loves me and wanted us to live apart but still be associated with each other. I hope she pulls herself out I feel she needs reflection time for herself and renew her energies. :)

I won't lie, this is the first time that I have been where I had an option. I was in a loveless marriage for years - ike half of my life. I have been with my partner now for 2/5, a little more than 2 years living together and I didn't realize that I shuold have had more time on my own between my divorce and dating. But we met and we moved quickly. I tried to bolt and give him his space. He viewed it as me breaking up with him, which I wasn't. So, I am here. I am glad I have stayed. I love him and working things out with him in my life is easier with him here. I am not used to people being accommodating or understanding what I have been through in my life. He tries and even though he hasn't been in my shoes, he seems to get it. I would have bolted had he let me though. It sounds as though she is still allowing a place for you in her life. That is all you can do is be there and be understanding of who she is and her process. It sounds like you are doing that :) I wish you the best of luck. Us wanderlusting gypsy types can be hard on the soul but it is my experience that our love is fierce. <3 Thank you for sharing. In a way, it is nice to know I am not the only one. I tend to close myself off, not leave the house etc when I am like this. Since my mom died I have been weird... then my dogs ran away and I fell apart. I know it is not going to hurt this bad forever - I just have the feels and they are crushing sometimes. It is hard to remember, in the moment that we all feel like this at times.

Glad your doing well now I hold out hope she will prosper soon. A lot of it was to do with losing our baby, she decided she didn’t want to try again. As she already had he little boy. She could not live with the fact that she might stop me having children, I said I would be ok and get used to it bla bla. But she would accepted it then I started to feel maybe she only try to have another to make me happy (there were complications and she had been told not to try again, I did not know how serious it was).

Then this drove a wedge between us and it was downhill from there. She taught me a lot and like you, well sounds like the same sort of person. Unfortunately she is very lost and I can’t help her anymore. Maybe I have let her down but I tried and I can’t see her all the time as it hurts, she's thinks I’m trying to move on and find someone else. Anyways happy days were both sorting things out and in time we will be able to laugh about it all :)