Life doesn't give you what you want, life gives you what you are. You want more, then become more.

DeepThinking

The most common and easiest thing people do is to complain. They have been taught by observation to use their time and energy to do the most non-productive thing in the world which is to complain. Some now have a PHD in complain systems. They complain about anything and everything.
Brother complain and sister complain, how has your complaints helped you?
Sure I know you will say well am stating the obvious, well don't let the obvious become a permanent reality. Haven't you noticed that weeds don't need encouragement to grow? Complaints doesn't need support for it to thrive.
So stop complaining.
In the ancient text, four lepers were once faced with a situation where their core option was to complain but instead they changed the situation not just for themselves but for a nation. They told themselves "why seat we here and die" and the rest like it is said is history. You either use faith or resign to fate. According
to daddy J.O (John Obidi) "sometimes the only available means of transport is a leap of faith".
There is no problem in life that doesn't have a solution.
If it doesn't have a solution, then it is not a problem.
Don't complain.

Three things complaining will do for you without stress are:

1. it will shut you out of possible options, alternatives and solutions
2. it drains your productive energy yet you haven't done anything
3. it gets you a free label, tag and brand. You are known for it.
   No matter what life throws at you don't complain, just come plain.

DeepThinking

Now how do you convert from complaining to taking action and seeing results:

1. Discipline yourself: whenever you see yourself about to complain tell yourself this is the time to brainstorm for solutions and then get to work
2. Change your circle: break into the circle of achievers and leave your circle of complainers. Your circle will determine your cycle
3. Speak what you want to see, not what you are currently seeing. As the mind thinks, so the mouth speaks. What you speak always happens. Speak complain and you will get more to complain about, speak different and you will experience difference.
   There is only one thing complain has ever solved:
   NOTHING.
   Complaints are like excuses, they are good reasons for bad results and those who use them are not wise.

DeepThinking

Incompetence disguised as strategy is still incompetence and is unacceptable. Don't complain.