completely agree with being able to love yourself first before having a person come into your life! You attract what you are.

Will Smith made a great video depicting this:

https://www.facebook.com/aplusapp/videos/1921514897919437/

You can't depend on a partner to make you happy, they're not responsible for your happiness. They're contributors to it, but not the primary vessel.. Even when we're married, we're on our own separate journeys choosing to grow and bringing in what we learn into the relationship :)