Give away the power of mourning

in life •  7 years ago 

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I started my trial in the family court without taking a break from the hospital and taking a rest. Almost every day face such a trial. Sometimes the children have my judge, and sometimes their mother. During the trial on 12 March, 018, the phone of my nephew symbol. 'Chachchu, see whether the US Airways has crashed in Kathmandu.' Justice was abandoned. Open the TV and started scrolling. In the mobile phone, we found out about the accident. Hopefully there was nothing to do with the plane, the plane has run out of the runway. Maybe the passengers are good. In the meantime, my son used to hear the conversation with the pilot in the airport control tower. Seeing the picture of the two pieces of the crashed in the picture, the head revolves around. I realized that many of the casualties are. The mind became very bad. I started scrolling to Facebook for more information. Suddenly, after seeing a post of friend Sumon Zahid, the sky fell on the head. He wrote that our friend Rafiq Zaman Rimu, his wife Bipasha and the children were on the plane unarmed! Oh, an analytical conversation with Rimu in front of the eyes, the argument and the face burst out. I'm a professional psychiatrist. I advise the patient to control emotions, on all my gifting strategies, on long-lasting lecture with 'long-term mental health care' in non-governmental organizations, training doctors and counselors, World Health Organization publishes 'Post-disaster-related mental health care' I am very proud to be included in the publication; But seeing the post of friend Suman Zahid, the sky broke on my own head. I could not swallow, I started walking in the house. I gave a call to Sumon Zahid, saying the number is busy. Rimu worked with the rights of disabled people. We had a meeting with him in the field of professional meetings and seminars as well. He used to argue well. I remember my last conversation with him a few days ago. One of my relatives talked to him about employment in an NGO.
I could not walk much longer. The two of the legs are as hopeless. Sit down We are scrolling in the hands of the mobile phone. I can understand that there is no good news.
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I could not walk much longer. The two of the legs are as hopeless. Sit down We are scrolling in the hands of the mobile phone. I can understand that there is no good news.

Even after being a professional psychiatrist I could not stop the storm of my mind. Understandably, our lecture, training, trauma counseling-one can not work on the grief-stricken people. But this is science. So I decided to calm myself and sit still. You have to be natural. Mourning must be accepted. There are many types of news coming. I saw that Rimu was stuck in the plane, and I saw no one else, and another hope was shown - Rimu was injured in the hospital. In the evening it was evening. Expatriate friend Liton Kathmandu said in the embassy's sources, all is finished. Rimu kills the family.
I might be upset for my friend. But we were thinking that the condition of the mind of 50 families and their relatives. Meanwhile, the phone from the Ministry of Relief and Disaster A team has been formed to give primary health care to the relatives of the dead and injured people in Kathmandu. I got Jamal Hossain trained in this area of ​​my hospital. We are continuing in professional work. I think all the lies, no accidents have happened. Then it seemed to me that this is the first step of the 'Griff' re-operation, denial of grief. It seemed to me that this trauma counseling, the big words of psychosocial assistance were mere mere words. What is it? All stingy After all, the logical mind said-no, it is not science, science is false.

After the big disaster, mournful and frustrated people do not want comfort. They want the power to overcome grief. Therefore, people who are bereaved, have to be mpathatic without being sympathetic. Due to the sudden disaster-accidents, severe depression, disorder and the uncertainty of the future, mental disasters happen in most of the casualty-related people. The important thing is that not only those who are directly affected by the accident, but there may be less mental disadvantage among people of all levels related to it. Researchers divide the survivors into five steps after the disaster-accident. In the first step, those who were directly in danger and survived in a healthy condition or later. In the second step, those who were killed or wounded by the disaster were rescued. Those who are engaged in direct rescue after the disaster-accidents - such as fire service workers, military personnel, volunteers, they are also considered as the third step. In the fourth step, local administrators, doctors, paramedics, journalists, law enforcement agencies, who provide service to displaced persons and provide disaster-related services. In the last or fifth phase, those who have seen the accident from a fairly safe distance or read their pictures and news in television and newspapers. That means anyone with direct or indirect involvement with the accident can face mental disaster. As the friend of Rimu, killed in the Kathmandu aircraft accident, I am the second step, the fourth step as a psychiatrist, and I am the fifth step as a citizen of Bangladesh! Some of the closest relatives who were on that plane, I wanted to understand the condition and unrest in their mind. It is considered important to help them as a mental health worker. I told Jamal Hossain to do this. And, sincere people think that Facebook refrains from publishing information and opinions on Facebook.
During the next two weeks from the moment of unexpected accident and danger, acute stress disorder, convergence disorder (hysteria), temporary anxiety (brief cyclosis), panic disorder, anxiety, abnormal Mourning, behavior and speaking etc. After two weeks in the next few weeks, post-traumatic stress disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, depression etc. Those who had already had mental history or drug addiction history, their problems became intensified. Psychological disasters are seen among children*

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