How to be interesting

Be active

As the graph shows, everything is very simple: the lazier you are, the less interesting. The more time is wasted on the Internet and TV, the more meaningless is your life, not only to you, but to others. There is nothing more boring than a lazy person.

Happy people are magnetic

Why? People are so organized that instantly adopt the mood and emotions of those with whom they deal. Therefore, if a person is happy, then his interlocutor is charged with this happiness.

Let your strangeness manifest
Most people try to wedge into society by editing themselves in such a way as to completely harmonize in society (in their opinion). They are afraid to seem strange, as if this is a crime.

Do the following:

Do not judge others for their oddities
Stop being afraid that when others recognize the present you will turn away
Think and think outside the box

Ask people questions and really listen to them.

Psychologist Dale Carnegie was one of those who noticed a simple fact: to be interesting to a person, show interest in him.

It does not matter how much you know, but if you do not know how to listen, then you will seem incredibly boring.

Learn to tell stories
Stories help our mind to concentrate. Each story has an emotional structure that makes the facts and concepts more memorable. By learning to tell stories, you will get the opportunity to attract the audience.

Here are some tips on how to tell a good story:

Ask the background: who, what, when, why and where
Edit the boring stuff
Make your stories simple
Allows you to slightly embellish
There must be conflict
After the conflict the conflict is overcome
In the end, morality must be implied or implied
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Keep three stories ready
Sit down and reconsider your life experience. Each person has hundreds of stories in stock. Choose the three most interesting.