Hi Kaylinart. This is a really important thing to be talking about. Thank you for bringing it into the Steemit sphere. I think you will really appreciate this podcast which interviews Tibetan Buddhist monk Matthieu Ricard. He explains how our definition of happiness sets us up for suffering, and that simply with a different way of understanding happiness, all of life can be ours to enjoy. Here's a link. I look forward to more from you! https://onbeing.org/programs/matthieu-ricard-happiness-as-human-flourishing-jul2017/