After the first month of being engaged... (Or, The Battle of Booking and Dreams of a STEEM-Powered Wedding)

in lifemeetsfiction •  7 years ago 

(Come on now, you know the drill. You need to click on this to find out what happens haha! I promise to try to make it worth your while)

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As many of you know, a month ago, I became engaged to my girlfriend of four years. Yes, do throw your hands in the air in celebration, pump your fists and rejoice. It's a joyous occasion after all! To those of you who don't know, you can read about the announcement here. Go on, catch up on everything. We'll wait up for you.


Disclaimer: My internet is projected to be out for a week because of a broken cable, which is such a weird coincidence, right when I said I was going to take a short break. I apologize for the delay in comments and replies, I'll try to catch up with everything when my internet is restored.


Done? Awesome! If you finished the announcement post and came back, then you're a Grade A individual who I fully wish to succeed on this platform. Reading through and commenting on this post assures you a 100% vote and a thoughtful comment from me. Yes, you have that in writing, so it's completely binding.

Now, in honor of the proposal's one month celebration, let's not waste this splendid campfire, and pick up where we last left off.


Fresh from the bliss of the proposal...

The newly-engaged couple was on a high, of which they thought they could never come down from. They sat on a nearby dusty cushion, and recounted the events that led them to where they were. After all, the man had bested fate, and that was a feat one couldn't easily scoff at. But, the man knew not to test its patience, so it gave the omniscient force its due. It seemed that the stars had aligned in their favor, and the man knew that his influence had its limits. Aligning stars wasn't part of his repertoire, no matter how hard he tried to believe it was.

The woman rested her head on the man's outstreched arms, still a bit breathless about the whole ordeal. She had no idea her day would turn out the way it did, and she couldn't help but feel relieved. Of the million possible scenarios that she didn't account for, she was glad that this was the one that played out. She went on and on about having no idea that it would transpire, and that she was completely shocked about everything. The woman always had a knack for spoiling surprises, so catching her off-guard was a feat all to itself. Now, she had a ring on her finger, which forever signified the man's victory over her incessant spoilerness.

It was nighttime now, and the crowd outside had dissipated. The man regaled the woman with tales of how everything went about. For all he knows, she could've easily been taking notes so that she wouldn't fall for the same trap again. However, the man cared very little about it. He was known for planning ten steps ahead, but at that moment, his future was a blank slate. There were no surprises in store, no other contingencies to contingencies. For the first time in years, the man was living in the moment.

After all the tales were told, the woman took out a small tablet and conjured a spell to communicate with people living far away. She broke the news of her engagement, and told the others to take her listing off the market. Her name had always been scratched off the list ever since they got together, of course, but now their names would definitely be expunged from it. All the people they called shouted and bursted in tears. The couple weren't sure if the gestures were celebratory, but they recognized some semblance of congratulations amid all the ludicrous sobbing.

The pair looked into each other's eyes, and, without words, decided on a date when they would wed. Their journey together had come full circle, and both of them knew the exact day when they would decide to tie the knot. A circle, after all, has no loose ends. Fate overheard their decision, and nodded in agreement.

The man gathered his things, and bid the woman good night. He mounted his steed and journeyed home, amidst the rainfall that he helped summon. The man didn't want to separate from his betrothed, but it had to be done.

As soon as he arrived home, he announced his victory on the Book of Faces, to which it was greeted with universal approval. The couple felt happy about the reception, but they knew that it didn't help at all with their journey moving forward. However, they didn't want to be bogged down by trivial thoughts such as that. They were on a high, one which they thought would carry them to the cosmos.

At the back of their minds, they knew that gravity would pull them back down to reality. But, that was something that was left for tomorrow. They were living in the moment, and that night was something that nothing could take away from them.

Tomorrow came, and so did the pull of gravity...

Using the momentum they had built up the night before, the couple hit the ground running. They felt recharged, as if they had a new lease on life. The man had conquered fate, but they knew reality was a far greater adversary, one which an individual couldn't face alone. So, they interlocked their fingers and decided to defeat reality together.

"Ready?" the man asked excitedly.

"Five minutes," the woman replied with authority.

The man paced around while waiting for the woman to give the go signal. In his mind, he charted a path so that they could efficiently cover as much ground as they can. They were going to war, so they needed to stock up on armnaments and prepare for whatever would come their way.

"Okay," the woman interrupted. She tapped the man's shoulder, and derailed his train of thought. "I'm ready."

They boarded his steed, and made their way to the far away land of Cheers Father. Their first objective was to enlist a venue where they could hold their ceremonial nuptial, so the woman mapped out a path for them. One by one, they inquired about the availability, taking careful note of the characteristics of every location. They took note of things like vantage points and distance into consideration, as they didn't want to be breached during the time when they would be most vulnerable.

Anticipating victory, they also scouted for venues where they could hold their celebratory feast for after they conquer reality. Unlike the ceremonial venues, the rental of these locations had a steeper price. They combined their coffers, so that neither of them would run on empty. But, even with their merged wealth, the fee sought to drain their resources. To remedy the impending drainage, they decided to sell their talents for monetary compensation.

The woman had always been great with numbers, and she had been amassing her wealth by helping large organizations plan how they allocate their resources. After all, she had been trained in esteemed institutes, so her skill had been honed to its fullest potential.

However, the man wasn't as fortunate, and didn't have a steady source of income. He had stocked his coffers by being a sellsword, but now he feared that he was outdated. Even though he plied his trade to different factions, none were impressed enough to offer him a steady position. It had been many moons since he received any compensation, and he knew that his vault would be hemmorhaging during their journey. He didn't want to put all of the burden on the woman, but she cared not about the sorry state of his financial status. She wanted to be with him, and not with his money, but he didn't feel comfortable not being able to provide her with the luxury she deserved.

There was a shadow that loomed over the man, taking hold of his heart whenever he was defenseless. It was an agent of reality, and it seemed like the opponent, that they once thought was unassuming, had already been quietly making its move. The woman casted spells to vanquish the foul creature, but she could only do so much. They were in it together, so the woman constantly reassured the man that he wasn't alone in his journey anymore.

After a few days, they secured the two venues...

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But, they knew that it was only the first step. The couple discovered that they needed to organize an army to support their cause. Not only were they selling their services, but they, too, needed to acquire the services of others to help with their quest. To that effect, they journeyed to fairs at Booking to enlist the others who would aid them in the upcoming battle.

They discovered that they weren't the only pair who were fighting reality, but as much as they want to join forces with the others, all they could do was to help out with filtering the best services available. Even though all of the couples felt like they collaborated, in truth, they all fought separately.

Offers flew in left and right, each more expensive than the others. The woman felt rattled, but she knew that she had to put on a strong facade so that the man wouldn't be overtaken by the relentless shade. Doubt fed it, and it used the man's fear as a fuel. The man knew that his resources would soon be drained, and that he would need to rely on the woman to fund their venture. Every thought only served to benefit reality's malicious agent.

In the meantime, the man had been devoting his time to a place that traded a precious commodity they called STEEM. While the man didn't make much there, he held on to hope of the commodity's potential. He made allies there which he hoped to be able to invite to their nuptials, but the cost of adding even more people to their army wasn't something their budget allowed. The man often became lost in thought, dreaming of how STEEM would fund their wedding, but with the rate he was going, the amount he was making didn't even allow him to buy even the most trivial of trinkets. He sulked at the realization, further strengthening the shade.

"Hey," the woman said. "Look at me."

The man was hesitant, but obliged. Her face brought him a sense of security and a feeling that everything was going to turn out alright. He fought to keep the shade at bay, but there were times when he couldn't help but be overpowered by it.

"Everything is going to work itself out," she reassured, to which he agreed begrudgingly. She wasn't convinced, but she knew that she wasn't supposed to force the issue.

Reality launched its offensive, and it didn't want to suffer the same fate as, well, hmm ... fate, so it refused to let the couple regroup. It jacked up the price of the market, so all of the other couples scrambled to avail of the different services quickly. Dates were being blocked off, so the couple knew that they had to act quickly. The man unsheathed his sword and proceeded to plow through their rivals. While the others were being driven away, the woman snuck in to talk with the different sellswords.

For the first time in a long while, the man felt useful, and it served to keep the shade at bay. During the melee, the woman acquired the services of people knowledgeable in applying war paint and arranging headdresses. They also acquired magicians who specializes in casting spells that bent light.

Seeing that the couple was making steady progress, reality bogged the woman down with tasks, by forcing the organization she worked for to keep her busy. To bolster its efforts, the malevolent force enlisted the help of its sibling — time. It knew that the woman was also in the process of mastering her craft, so it scheduled all of her trials at the same time as well. The woman fought back, but couldn't help but be overwhelmed by everything thrown her way.

They prayed to fate to help them, but their former adversary refused to intervene. It had already allowed their paths to converge, and it felt like it already did its part. There was only so much an omniscient force could do.

It was a trying time, but the bond the couple had forged was stronger than reality, and time, could break. They were a long way from the completion of their journey, and even though the battle closed in quickly, they prepared for it the best way they knew how — together.


Okay, okay ... You got me. I snuck in STEEM there just to bait some readers, but the rest is true. Wouldn't be nice to be able to fund your own wedding, birthday, trip, or whatever solely by posting? That would be the dream, wouldn't it? I know some of the whales already do, and that's great for them. But, what if everyone here could do it, right? Wouldn't that be awesome. Since HF19 made the voting power linear, what if the effort you give is directly proportional to the compensation you receive, huh? That would be so awesome! The potential that Steemit provides is almost unparalleled today. It's the closest thing we have to Universal Basic Income, and I have high hopes that it would catch on to others. Now I know that I won't ever fulfill that STEEM-powered dream (after all, I did win @lepton's Worst Steemit Contest haha!), and I'm not asking for any handouts (not that anyone is going to give me one), I'm just thinking out loud, I guess.

Since I'm done with my good deed for the year (giving 6 months worth of time and earnings to @zeppelin), I'm going to be a bit more selfish and allocate all of the earnings I will receive in the coming months towards my wedding. Like the man in the story, I, too, am having trouble with my finances, and since I won't ever receive any barn raising effort or whatever, I'm going to do it the old-fashioned way and write my ass off. I'm ramping up my efforts to secure a full-time employment so I would be tapering the time I spend here. So, we'll see what the future holds. Exciting (and scary times) indeed! :D


Speaking of employment and financial freedom, have you voted on witnesses yet? If you still have slots in store, please consider voting for my former employer @lukestokes' witness lukestokes.mhth. He started a series called Understanding Blockchain Freedom, as sort of an explainer to the concepts we take for granted here, so please do carve some time from your busy schedule to check it out :D

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Hey my bro!

Man, what I quaint little set of tales this is turning out to be. Showing the strength and resolve forged through the bonding of the right man and woman. Loving it and the medieval feel the story has.

Man, the imagination you have never ceases to amaze me. I love it and your stories always leave me wanting more. It seems your recent engagement has ignited another epic from the master mind of the awesome @jedau! :)

Medieval!? This is set way in the future!! Haha Just kidding, it's set in the present ;) Oh, and that's my story I'm telling, not someone else's. I hope my misdirect tactics didn't fool you, bro haha!

As much as I want to turn this into a monthly series, we'll see. I don't want to seem like I'm milking the engagement or run the risk of oversaturating the readers. Maybe I'll make new entries whenever there are milestones, like 2nd month or 3rd month or 4th month or middle of the engagement or 3rd week of the 5th month. You know, those kinds of milestones, the ones that are easy to pass haha!

Sorry, my bro! When I read about "stars aligning" and "sellswords", I imagined sometihing totally different. Though of course, in my mind you and @randomli were the stars of the show!

I'd love it if you were to turn this into a monthly, weekly or even daily series, lol! And come on, man! You've put in so much effort in previously for @zeppelin, it's only right that some money now falls into your pocket. Hope the preparations are going smoothly and keep pushing higher, my brother! :)

Just messing with you, brother :D Of course it's medieval, is there any other way to tell this story!? HAHA!

I certainly hope your sentiment is echoed by others. The average votes coming my way has significantly dropped, and I expected it with HF19. But yeah... We'll see. Here's hoping for the best :D

How on earth did I miss this post??? What the?!$#%!! Well, looks like I'll have to honor it a little differently....

Didn't we talk about this in chat though? I might be mistaken, but I clearly remember discussing this with you already. Thank you for the donation! 10 SBD would go a long way, sister!! :D

We definitely discussed the ideas in this post in chat, but somehow I didn't realize you made an actual post about it!

Do I need to follow the newbie way and link bomb new posts every time? HAHA! I have gotten significantly less votes ever since HF19. Perhaps I'm still categorized as new with the way things have been going for me haha

Have you looked at my votes lately? I barely break fifty if that. We've all been punched in the gut with hf19, totally sucks. None of the newbies I shouted out to link bomb posts, that's a no no lol.

My last post didn't even break 30 hahaha! :D I'd say minnows like me should still be considered as newbies. I'm saying that partly so that I could get a taste of that velocity they're implementing with HF20. At this rate, newbies who signed up only a couple of months ago would be on the same level as me in no time hahaha! I feel like one of those elderly people jogging in tracksuits.

Have you seen this:
https://steemit.com/@minnowsupport
I've noticed it on a few people's blogs and right about now I'm jealous lol. But check it out.

Also, I'm doing the merej99 challenge, it's on my page, and I've already put up a post this morning. If you hurry you might be the first commenter lol!

And...as you will see I will be doing posts that honor veterans too...today's was appropriate to do merej99, but I predict you'll be in one soon :)

Yeah haha I've been seeing that a lot. Good for them. It's like what curie did for us back in the day. I found it odd that a bunch of newbie minnows staked their claim and declared themselves the official team to represent our country, which was a bit off-putting for me, so I chose not to engage. I find it interesting how our country could be so divided haha!

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Congratulation! On your engagement. I' m glad to bump some power to you and Resteem your blog. God bless both of you.

Woah! Thank you for the resteem and the congratulations! I appreciate it a lot :)

Congrats and thanks for sharing. That's amazing :)

Thank you for the greeting! I hope you enjoyed the story :D It is amazing, and I'm enjoying every minute of it!

congrats!!! this is so sweet!! Bless you both on your journeys to come :)

Thank you for the well wishes! I hope you enjoyed reading this short recap of our first month :D

Congratulations and Bright Blessings to you both my new friend! :)

Upvoted & Resteemed

Much Love

Thank you for the resteem and the greeting, my friend! I hope you enjoyed the story as well :D

Congratulations on your engagement, may god bless you to old and close my eyes. I like this post beautiful and simple.

Thank you for the well wishes! I never thought of the post as simple, but I appreciate you saying that the story was beautiful :D

Congrats to you and your fiancee :)

Thank you for the well wishes! :D

Beautiful venue, grats! I'll follow and see how it goes, good luck!

Awww thanks, man! We really searched for the best venue that fit our budget and this one was really perfect. I might be able to post pics of the inside next time. It's even more beautiful on the inside :D

Yes, full STEEM ahead (literally), towards this wonderful goal. Loved the story telling here, so much I could relate to, believe me. I am resteeming this, in an effort to help put it before more eyeballs for you. And as always I will keep following your journey.

Oh mate that's huge! I'm sure your resteem was the one that put it over the top!! It's awesome that it was relatable. I didn't really figure it that way, but it's a great surprise that it was. Something about being engaged that inspires creativity, I guess haha! Thank you for the support, mate :D

Yes it's all down to my resteem :)

No, I think your talents played a bigger role. And the fact it was well received, because it deserves to be.

Thanks, mate :D But, it really isn't any use unless a lot of people see it. On its own, I know it would make 30-40 dollars on a good day. Having your support really means a lot, and I really appreciate the boost! :)

Congrats. Wish you a great life ahead

Thank you for the well wishes! I appreciate it :D

@jedau pleasure is all mine

I wish you a great life as well, man!

Apparently I failed to comment on this o_O

Man that was some epic battling and bah so typical of reality, it attempted to pull some similar stunts at mine and my partner's wedding a million years ago, but in the end it was no match for THE PARENTAGE who rejected reality and substituted it with their own (it's one of their superpowers, I unfortunately got the less useful variant XD)

Good luck and you never know, the wedding may well end up being steem powered :D

Awww boo! Haha!

It's great that THE PARENTAGE boosted you guys, unfortunately, that might not be the case for us. That's why I'm relying on this so-called STEEM to help us rise above reality's dreaded weapon--DEBT!

It's still a ways away, so I have high hopes that it would be! Heck, with help of all my friends here, that's not far from reality :D

Congratulations! I'm sure you will gather enough funds even if they won't be 100% from steemit.

Thank you, my friend! I hope for the same thing as well! Wouldn't it be nice if it's 100% from Steemit though? That would be the dream, for sure! Maybe one day :D

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

"conjured a spell to communicate with people living far away" - really funny. I imagine this is how technology nowadays would look like for people who lived 2-3 centuries ago.

Right?? I'm glad you thought of it the same way haha! Aircraft as dragons, smartphones as magical tablets. Magic is only science that is currently unexplained. In a few years time, people of the future are going to think of us as so primitive as well haha!

yeah. wish I could live to see all the tech marvels that will be invented. I do hope that humanity doesn't get too lost inside the virtual worlds they so desperately try to create. and there's also the AI thing. did you listen to Elon Musk saying that trying to create AI is similar to summoning a demon? Funny, but it gets you thinking. all one can do is marvel at the unbelievable progress that was made since the dark ages. ok, the reply got too long. thanks !

Haha! Oh that Elon Musk ... I'm actually a Software Engineer, and I majored in Artificial Intelligence back in college. Sure, there are merits to the fears, but sometimes it's all overblown. As long as programmers maintain responsibility, there won't be any possibility of Skynet or whatever robopocalypse in the near future haha I mean, who creates a war machine without a backdoor shutdown, right? Haha! It's all in how it's constructed. If creators don't think of contingencies for the possibilities of their creations, then they shouldn't be creating them in the first place.

Don't worry about long replies :) I'm guilty of those on a regular basis haha!

An engrossing read and congrats on your engagement. I also like to thank you for your message of love to my autistic son for his art work. Jonathan has produced another work and this time I mentioned your name.
https://steemit.com/art/@positivesteem/communicating-with-my-autistic-son-through-artistic-collaboration-those-fallen-leaves

Thank you for the greeting and the shoutout! I'll check it out soon, but I will upvote it already after sending this comment because I know it'll be great :D

Candid but elegant writing! Thank you for sharing. Cheers and congrats to you and your fiancé @jedau

Thank you, man! I really appreciate the praise :D That was indeed the intention and I'm glad it translated well on the page. I hope you enjoyed reading it, no matter how candid it was :)

Aw man!! What is the world coming to when a man can't make a living from being a sell-sword!!

I am glad you are gonna take some of those earnings for your wedding dude. Much steem to you!! :0)

Some?? At this rate, it would have to be all of my future earnings haha! The world has come to... well, this. I would've thought my skills are on demand, but apparently people are now demanding too much. Pretty soon I would need to work as a janitor just to make ends meet haha! I hope you're enjoying your vacation with the family, dude!

I know what you mean man! I am so broke right now and hopefully will get good enough at Steem that I can make a decent stream of revenue through here. :) I want to take my beautiful girlfriend to Paris one day! She deserves it!

Happy times!

Don't put all your eggs on the Steem basket though! I've learned that you should chip away at it until there's some semblance of a steady stream of income. One day, I'm sure we'll make it work. But until that, I'm happy to just grind away.

That's an awesome goal to have, and I wish you all the best in making that a reality, man! I'm certain that a STEEM-powered getaway with your girlfriend is in your future, brother! :D

This post received a 1.4% upvote from @randowhale thanks to @theywillkillyou! For more information, click here!

Hope this little "engagement present" treats you well :)

Pare!! Wow! Thank you for this! I totally didn't see this when I replied to your earlier comment!! I really appreciate the gesture! This is so nice of you, man! :D No matter the amount, it's the gesture that I would really remember, so thanks for this!

My pleasure pare, anytime ;)

Seriously though, that was really awesome of you :D I wanted to pay you back by summoning randowhale as well, but your posts already have the vote. I'll pay you back in the future!

Don't worry about it pare...like you, I do what I do just to give back to the amazing community! Not looking for anything in return from you, just wanna see us all succeed ;)

That's so refreshing to hear! Too often on here, people just look out for themselves. I'm glad we share the same sentiment in helping everyone succeed together :D

Also, you beat me to @randowhale again hahaha! Thank you, pare! Even though you don't expect anything in return, I just want you to know that the gesture is highly appreciated, and won't ever be forgotten :D @randowhale's not paying as high as it used to though huh.. No matter, even a single cent is huge :D

Oh wow! What a nice surprise!! Thank you for this!!

Congrats guys, so happy for you two! Upvoted & wishing you two a smooth wedding planning process and an even happier engagement :)

Thank you, pare! Means a lot :D We appreciate your well wishes and we wish for a smooth planning process as well. It's going to be a trying journey, but I have high hopes that everything will go smoothly :D

Admirable work dear friend @jedau, thank you very much for that beautiful work, congratulations dear friend for this important decision that you have taken in your life, is the most beautiful thing that can happen to us humans. God bless you my dear friend
I send you a big hug

Thank you, my friend! It's a very important one indeed! I have high hopes that STEEM would rise so that the expenses would be supported by my earnings here. A big hug to as well!

Congratulations on your Steemit powered wedding! :)

I have high hopes it would be, but we'll see. As of now, it's still regular peso-powered wedding haha! Thank you for the well wishes :)

Congrats

Thanks! :D

Congrats!

Thanks for the well wishes! :D

great post. congratulations

Thank you for the well wishes! :D

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Great! Thanks for letting me know :D