Never say 10 words that Smart!

in lifestyle •  7 years ago 

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There are some things that you never want to say at work. You know the words are true, but the same effect of those words that begin to bring you sadness. And these are the features that once said that the end ... and there will be no way to get back. Like that ... Throwing arrows ... And the word that is said to be withdrawn can not be brought back.

Rather, your lack of words ... or the expression of confidence. Which will cause you the biggest damage.

No matter how talented you are ... Work and self-dedication ... There are some things you have to refrain from saying. Because these words are small ... seemingly innocuous but their inner power is so weighty that it crashes in your career.

Then come what the words are, in context-

  1. . "This is how it is going on." It means the danger of saying the word is dangerous. At technology-time, everything is changing so fast that it was not as much as it was six months ago. And at such a time if you say, 'This is happening' means that you are either lazy ... or failing to keep up with changes. And your boss is sure to sit down, you are not interested in your own development. Remember, the way by which it has come so far ... there is a different and better way to accomplish the task.

  2. "This is not my fault." This is not a good thing to avoid. Stay accountable. When the mistake goes away, take responsibility for it if you have a role, even a little less. And if you are not mistaken, please explain the neutral, neurotic explanation of what happened. Stay in the harsh position of the truth, and let your boss or colleagues reach a conclusion. Whenever you start pointing fingers at others, then others will continue to point to your lack of accountability. At one stage you will become nervous yourself. Someone may even leave your company because of your defensive behavior. And if they make a mistake in the future, they will want to blame you first.

  3. "I can not." 'I can not, and' it's not my fault ', like a masculine brother. People do not want to hear the word 'cannot'. And if you hear it, then it means that 'I will not do the job'. If you really can not, if you do not have the skills, then you can talk about an alternative process to do the job. Still, do not speak the word 'cannot' by mouth. Rather say, how you can. 'Someone can surely cooperate' ... that is why it is better to take responsibility for the job.

  4. "That's not right." Everyone knows that a lot of things happen in life, which are not right. But when you say, 'that's not right' that means you are thinking that the pace of life should always be exactly the same. This is proof of your immaturity. If you do not want to prove yourself bad, you have to adapt to the reality, be constructive, and your mind's explanation will be expelled from it. But you may want to know, why such a decision is.

  5. "It does not fall into my business." It means that you are interested in doing just that as much as you can get it. But if you want to save the job ... that is the biggest danger for him. If your boss tells you to do any work and if you think that doing this will not be right for you (if not morally unnecessarily), it is best to finish the job with sincerity. And later, let's talk about your attitude when looking for a while to talk to the boss. This will create a long-term understanding between the two. Then both of them will understand what you should do, no matter what.

  6. "Maybe it's a foul idea ... ... I want to ask a fool-proof question." Such speech talks reduce your credibility. A good idea on your head ... and it started with a saying ... that means you are suffering from lack of confidence. It's okay to be a critic of itself, but this is not a bad way. If you are not confident about what you say, nobody else will get confidence. If you do not have full confidence in any matter, you can know the matter, know everything and talk about it.

  7. "I will try." Thinking, I try to type words in the possible sense. This means that you are suffering from lack of confidence, and you have less ability to fulfill any work. Put your confidence in all its worth as well as its fullness. Express your beliefs when you are asked to do something, or you can tell it in a different way. Still do not say, I will try. Because this is another meaning to say that you do not do the job, do not try it.

  8. "I'll do it in one minute." But know that this thing is meant to make your career a little easier to see. And also the idea that you like to work fast. And if you are really sure, that will end in 60 seconds ... Say it also, it will not take time to finish the task. And do not talk less time than ever to finish any work ... whether they are talking or something else.

  9. "I hate the work." This is the last thing in the work that anyone who wants to listen to. Such a thing will only mark you as one of the negative mindsets. And will suppress the whole staff morale. And remember one thing, Basur became most anxious about your situation. Then he was looking for an alternative. And undoubtedly the other worker who is sitting in the corner is the alternative.

  10. "He is lazy / inefficient." It's just a shame to comment on a colleague. If your comment is correct, all that everyone knows to know, there is nothing to say. And if your comment is false or incorrect, then you will be marked as vicious. There are some bad behaviors in work, some people who are behind, and who have the good side, who have the opportunity to understand or to recognize them. Everyone knows them. In such a situation, if you do not have the power to develop or remove them ... then you have no benefit by proving their inefficiency. Rather, if you do something like that, then it will bring some trouble to you. The colleagues will start looking at you in a negative way.

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