The human heart always looks for comfort, but the human mind always looks for permanence—engrave that into your soul so that you never blame your heart for actions of your mind again.
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I want to talk about a lot of things here, but I want you to pat your back first. I want you to congratulate yourself for being a beautiful human being. I want you to think about all the times you pacified your heart when your mind urged you to let go of the person you loved, I want you to think of all the times you felt suffocated in love and I want you to think of all the times you’ve chosen your heart in battles with your mind. Did you lose count? If you did, it’s time to stop favouring your heart. And if you didn’t, it’s still worth a try.
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I think the biggest problem with our generation is the way we handle our relationships and then our break ups. We don’t believe in acceptance and we don’t believe in the idea of forgiveness.
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// Love can only evolve into indifference no matter how much you try to hate. //
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You promise to never let each other go, you keep messing up and you making up. You keep looping around in the same mundane cycle, until you just can’t, one day. When you find yourself struggling to get through your umpteenth fight, you realise that love isn’t a reason for you to be together anymore, that stringent promise is.
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