{It is just a|This can be a} hard thing to love a good man. {A great|An excellent|A fantastic} man is not a nice man - this individual {will not|would not} do things to be nice, he {will|does indeed} things as they has a moral code, a set of values this individual prioritizes and will always do his best {to be sure|to make certain} that his actions are in line with his own personal standards. A good man will not do the easy thing or the convenient thing, or use the thing that he wants to do; he will do what he knows as the good thing.
This individual will never lie to you to spare your emotions or attend something because social constructs {consider|regard|think} it the courteous or polite course of action, and he will in fact do many things that anger and {anger|irritate|thwart} you. But you {are not able to|are unable to|simply cannot} get mad at him, because {in the end|in fact|all things considered}, he is a good man.
A good man is the person who will take his ex-girlfriends call while he's along, because this individual knows that she has anxiety and would only ever call in an emergency, and {he could be|he's|he can} {required|obliged} as a good man to do whatever this individual can to help {even if|even though} it makes those around him uncomfortable.
A good man 
will put the wants of friends and family before his own needs, even when this individual recognizes that his friends and family are being manipulative or selfish, because a good man {is usually|is actually|is often} loyal. Worst of all, a good man will {believe|assume that} his unflinching {integrity|credibility|trustworthiness} about not wanting a relationship will negate his increasingly relationship-like actions, {the sort of} thoughtful deeds that a good man would {consider|regard|think} necessary {in an and|in different and|in just about any and} all {relationships|connections|communications} with {a lady|a girl}, despite the confusion they would cause.