Choosing a partner in everything is so hard and choosing a partner for life is harder and we have to take care so that we may enjoy that small paradise, our home.

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Here there are 3 most important things to consider, but there are more than 3 to consider that's why you will always need get advises before taking action.

👰 1. You're not only going to marry your partner but also his or her family

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Here you have to think more than twice, what is that family am going to marry?

🌹sometimes you will marry someone and find yourself sponsoring the whole family because it is poor, are you able and ready? Think before.
🌹 another time you marry the family and they hate you, how are you going to survive that journey? Are you ready and sure? Think before.
🌹 other time you may find witchcraft family or with other beliefs that may affect your offsprings in the way you have not wished, will you face that? Think before
🌹 Surely your offsprings will interact with your partner's family, their family, which influences are they going to get? Is it the same as you wish they could get influenced? How will you manage that? Think before.
🌹 you have a family and your partner has one, are they ready to bond? Are you sure? Think before.

👰 2. Morals and manners of the partner

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Regardless to culture, civilization, laws naturally marriage meant forever.

👭 So think of the partner that you will live with forever.
👭 think of which education, morals and manners S/he is going to give your children, this is most important

👰 3. Think of your family when you will not be there.

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The last not least. It is the most important.
Yeah marriage meant to be forever as I said but in this life there are a lot of circumstances we can't avoid including death.

💏 when you die will your family survive? Will your home remains respected as you wished? This will depend on the partner you have chosen.
💏 when you die will your child get education? This also will depend on the partner you have chosen.

You wish a good partner? be the one, and please know what you deserve how comes a rabbit needs to be a king of the jungle?

Thanks a lot. Hope you have enjoyed

SHALLOM

By Jado

@bmotives