Thankfully I have not had anyone cheat on me, nor have I had an affair, however I am of the opinion that if it were to happen the trust would be gone and I doubt very much the relationship would be the same again. Not only would I be deeply hurt by I believe in the saying 'the tree will die if the roots are damaged'.
I imagine each time he was late home, got a text message or was chatting on the internet I would be wondering if he was having another affair and most likely start an argument.
I have friends who have had affairs or their partner has, only one has managed to rebuild their relationship and move forward, I think it takes a special couple to do so.
Has anyone else out there managed to rebuild and be as happy before the affair or has it changed the dynamics forever between you?
I've never had someone cheat on me so I'm lucky in that aspect :)
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