Upon starting anew relationship, I realized that I have, for many years, trotted out my "sex puppet" who can please a man, and act like I have been pleased, while the real me is bored to tears and never finds satisfaction. We both know how to act like we know what we are doing in bed - but is it really an expression of our true feelings for each other?
Time to take responsibility for my brokenness and my for my own orgasm, utilizing How to Cultivate Female Sexual Energy Through the Tao ...
Having attracted someone willing to walk the path with me, we come with a great deal of baggage and the tools that we both need to shed it. Hence my commitment to be grateful to have graduated to this level of the path that requires a partner, but to also not take advantage of it by allowing myself to believe that it has anything to do with looking a certain way to society.
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nice!
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Another option is to give up orgasm altogether. Marnia Robinson wrote a book about it called Cupid's Poisoned Arrow where she described a form of lovemaking where neither partner achieves climax allowing them to experience an entirely different, more blissful and intimate experience. It reportedly also bypasses the Coolidge Effect.
Here's an interview with her about it if you're curious:
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I will look into it however I like the idea of the chi bathing my organs in life force energy hence healing htem and keeping them healthy...
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I would guess that's possible without the orgasm since people are describing it as being totally immersed in loving blissful energy which carries on outside of the union, but I'm no expert. Please let us know your experience either way!
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I will - I am just commenting that as a female I have very little knowledge of my own body which is surely the agenda of the control system... and this process - of the microcosmic orbit meditation, broken down into the cultivation of chi in the ovaries, etc and then brought up through the microcosmic orbit in a conscious way, is another "FUCK YOU" to big pharma...
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I think it is the same for men. We are capable of deeply powerful full body orgasms that last for hours, and yet almost no man is aware of that.
Thank you for your "Fuck You!" to big pharma.
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I am listening to this ... I think the Neofeminist Agenda has destroyed the potential for a lot of relationships...so bottom line, communication - both in bed and out - are the basis of intimacy... she's pretty mainstream - believes in darwinian evolution! It's an interesting idea... but I like the Taoist solution.
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The love between two people can be reflected in bed. I think you are right. However sex knowledge can change the whole experience according to the partner. Thanks for writing.
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